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[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by LisaJohn

Good morning Mr Ben. Wednesday and 30* here.

Originally Posted by Old Ben

It's 31 here.

27 here and we're flying TF out and back to where it's warm. Winter is fun to visit but ICNLT.

[Rodnok1]

Originally Posted by MikeB

It's always Saturday, until its Sunday.

Morning all

Didn't sleep much, Jim's rant brought back a lot of bad memories.
Said a few prayers for him, his wife, and son. Hope it helps.


Have a good one.

Sorry Mike I didn't mean to stir up bad memories man.

[Rodnok1]

Found Bears evil twin brother...

[Rodnok1]

When I say I don't bleed much I mean it. This is little less than normal for blood draw, usually it's one round spot but this isn't uncommon for me either.
Yes this high platelet count has made post surgery difficult as instead of some bleeding I had clots. I tried to get Dr to consider it as post surgical issue that could come up as they check platlettes up front aka change post op stuff to account for it or at least warn a dude.
Nobody gives 2 shits. I probably should have been on blood thinners especially since blood clots in legs can occur.
Think I'll start taking medical advice from forums....

[Kerrmudgeon]

Originally Posted by MadInNc

I can’t wait for @Kerrmudgeon ie Robbie to bitch about this shit like I know he will in the near future

....just because I "bitch" about it doesn't mean we don't need it in the spring. .

[dwjz06]

Originally Posted by Rodnok1

I will apologize up front to Lisa for swear words.
Long read sorry folks. Depressing also.

Suck level 10 today and more confused than ever and mad.
Dr bitched about not getting Pet scan approved then says there's a peer review to get approved. Well asshole I can't do it.
Mri doesn't show if lymph nodes have cancer just if they're bigger than normal. Said they don't needle biopsy them either as costly and difficulty.
Lymph nodes can be swollen from infection I believe also, that infection I had/have was a real bitch. Things were very bad(I'll leave details out that would make you cringe). When your cancer riddled friend says no thanks he won't trade you may be in hurtville. He wanted to come down and help me out, whoa I didn't think I was that bad off. So I'm not 100% sure that isn't causing them to be larger on scan, thus more reason for pet scan. Am i making sense?

So it's a guess if the cancer is in lymph nodes without a pet scan. Super as it can be a huge deal, aka cured or not. Me I'd rather be cured.

So he referred me to oncologist.

If has spread to lymph nodes it is not curable, they don't do surgery at all either.
Hormone therapy aka chemically castrate you to starve the cancer cells of testosterone. Two years to life for hormone therapy. Guess if psa goes back up or doesn't come down they go longer. Good chance even if it has not spread I'd get the hormone therapy anyway with surgery or radiation (very high probability as medium risk for spread).
No radiation nor chemo either.
I read if they open you up and find lymph node has cancer they just close you back up.
5 year survival rate with spread is close to 90%, 10 year is close to 80.
Wonderful.
KOW survival rate what 43%?

My brain is complete mush at this point. I sense a 3 day migraine rapidly approaching.

I'll be calling insurance in the morning and getting into the Pet scan getting approved.

Did get PSA level and it's high at 30(no shit really already know have it) used as a baseline I reckon. Fyi anything over 3.5 at my age and you probably have cancer so yes it's not good. Could this have been caught earlier and possibly been much less of an issue. More than likely. So I'll be kicking my own ass for that.
No history of this in family either. My son however is screwed as rampant in Wife's family and now me. Super... Makes me sad as he may have to go through this later on and I won't be here.

Other findings... No metal in hip as I asked to see mri and there's nothing. Dr said most likely the guy was a low level tech(he was) and had no idea what he was doing, super I got the B team.
I asked nurse about mri and she told me where to go for better machine, super they sent to to a hell hole. Like I'm supposed to know where to go, shouldn't they guide you? ****ers.

Bone scan did show one little itty bitty something on a rib but no way without pet tell if cancer(doubt it), mostly likely it's a rib Bear tries to crack with his ball ball. He hits me in that spot hard and numerous times, I have bruises to prove it.

A tube has blood in it, he had no idea why and asked if had an injury. No and **** no I've been in bed for months. I've been complaining about pain in that area almost from get go after surgery. No real answer on how long to heal that but "cleaning the pipes" would remove the blood. So... Maybe good news as bet I brow beat wife into a twice a day ritual for a few weeks, yes I'm a perv. I'll PM my address if anyone wants to send me an Asian hooker.

Oncologist office called on way home already, guess they need to make a mortgage payment or something as overly quick referral callback. It's on Monday.

I have to verify my insurance covers Duke cancer center then make an appointment.

I wasn't thrilled when asked Dr off the record who's the best oncologist and he wouldn't answer only to say the dr he's most familiar with is on medical leave.
So oncologist Dr has some name I'll never be able to pronounce. I am less than thrilled to go see as I guarantee he speaks as good of English as "Susie from St Louis" when you call customer service, however an opinion is an opinion and I want 2. Not be a dick but if I can't understand the dude(maybe a dudette i honestly can't tell by name) I won't use that Dr at all and may just walk out(did it before).

My urologist isn't a native of the US(african but not the shit hole area) and on occasion is difficult to understand but I'll give him credit for his attempts as he actually tries to speak as clerly as possible. But I can tell he doesn't always know what to say or how to say it(less than thrilling also). I'm not overly happy with after the surgery issues, he basically said he just works there they handle everything else when I questioned things like how the surgery was put in.
What the **** good is he if can't get shit done. They ****ed the paperwork up, he's responsible for it and to make sure I get care I should so.. **** him.
The more I think about it the more pissed I get. I know doctors who raise hell and make sure shit gets done, seems he ain't one. Another reason to bail on him, is he waiting for me to de**** shit with insurance?

So... I'm still on the fence about going to Dr what the **** ever his name is at all or picking one by the tried and true sticky notes on a wall and dart method.
I need to find somewhere that rates cancer Dr's, the shit is hidden better than the Clinton hit list.

Anywho I'm gonna go smack the wife on the ass and say let's go baby so you may never hear from me again.
If I don't crack jokes about this fellas(and ladies) I'm not sure I could handle it.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Sorry Jim. And your son may not have the issue or can now start early on keeping track as I have. Both my dad and his brother had it. Uncle gone because he did not take care of it. Dad is 80 still here and had the surgery. Good so far. Mine good numbers last visit. Prayers sir. I just hope you find better doctors and or care.

Originally Posted by Old Ben

Morning all.

I don't have a 2024 Calendar. Can one of you worker bees tell me what day it is.

Is it Wednesday or Thursday?

It is Hump DAYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!

Hello All

[Rodnok1]

Friend up north got a free home evaluation from the county finally. Five hours of testing and inspection, holy shit...
Good news is he should get some much needed improvements to save him money finally.
His 3 year old fridge is top of the list to be replaced, guy said it's huge energy draw(clamp meter used). Furnace and gas water heater also most likely will be replaced. Blown in insulation for attic along with attic stair pull down being insulated top and bottom.
Basement which is a nightmare and less than half full height and concrete floor will get thick poly lined and sealed up to floor joist on walls.
A couple of doors will get new weatherstripping/new storm door or replaced.
Windows which are junk are too new to be replaced expect 2 on front of the house, hopefully they put storm windows on those at least.
Few others things also like new thermostat.
He was floored to say the least. Some things should be quickly approved and done immediately like the fridge the guy said.

Most likely he was finally able to be eligible for some stuff due to Supreme Court over turning affirmative action so race isn't considered now...

About time the guy caught a break, time is shorter than we'd like it to be.
At least yesterday didn't suck completely.

[sublime1996525]

Evening all and happy new year.

Jim - damn man. I’m praying for you. I’d definitely recommend going to the Duke provider. You need to be your own advocate as they won’t do it for you.

[Old Ben]

Morning all.

[RMVette]

Originally Posted by Old Ben

Morning all.

Morning Ben.

Morning bar peeps!

[Old Ben]

Originally Posted by RMVette

Morning Ben.

Morning bar peeps!

Morning Robert.

[snide]

Originally Posted by Old Ben

Morning all.

Ben

Originally Posted by RMVette

Morning Ben.

Morning bar peeps!

Robert

Bar Peeps

[RMVette]

Originally Posted by snide

Ben

Robert

Bar Peeps

Alan

[Tikiman]

Good morning, all.


Snow predicted on Saturday so I will be going out and foraging today. There's a law on the books in Virginia that says you must try to buy all the milk and bread in the store if snow is expected.

[Old Ben]

Originally Posted by snide

Ben

Robert

Bar Peeps

Alan.

[Old Ben]

Originally Posted by Tikiman

Good morning, all.


Snow predicted on Saturday so I will be going out and foraging today. There's a law on the books in Virginia that says you must try to buy all the milk and bread in the store if snow is expected.

Morning Tiki.

Don't forget the toilet paper.

[RMVette]

Originally Posted by Tikiman

Good morning, all.


Snow predicted on Saturday so I will be going out and foraging today. There's a law on the books in Virginia that says you must try to buy all the milk and bread in the store if snow is expected.

Morning Tikiman... I'll add to what Ben mentioned... don't forget the batteries and forget you ever drove in snow before.

[Kerrmudgeon]

Top of the mornin to y'all this Thursday the 4th of January!

Light dusting of snow last night but not enough to shovel or blow.

[MikeB]

Morning all

23 and sunny.

[MadInNc]

Morning crew…. Need to box up Xmas tree and I’m done for this season. Wife still has 300+ snowmen to pack up.

Back to normal winter blues