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06-19-2013, 3:38pm | #81 | ||||||
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this whole thread has totally blown my mind...... have thought about it quite a bit....
chuck a ---in your original post you asked for help and/or opinions?....but yet you continue to tell everyone that we don't understand...he is a good kid yada yada yada....... and that you have no say in the matter......it's all good..... (and i am sure that he is a good kid---no arguements there) well i think most of us on here have raised some pretty damn awesome kids...i know i did.....and they did chores and learned things around the house.....no drugs ...no jail time....no run in with cops whatsoever.....good grades.....college grads..... ok so they have a smart mouth sometimes.... but i guess you are right......WE DON'T UNDERSTAND......but it is YOU that we don't understand.... you say he wants to be a vet......well then tell him to go do volunteer work at the local shelter......and you take your 15k (petty cash) and donate it to the local no kill shelter in your area....believe me they need it..... or he can volunteer at the hospital....donate your money there for something in pediatrics.......it is needed as well......call drs and ask who needs help paying those pediatric nicu bills and help them out.....they will be forever grateful..... or just donate it to a foster home....tell them to build a nice b-ball court for the kids there.....who knows one of those kids may go pro one day all because you gave a nice place to play and start their dreams of basketball superstars....... |
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You could just bribe him to STFU about it. Ask him if he wants a car when he turns 16, or a basket ball court. Ask him if he wants to go to college, or a basketball court. Make him choose.
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yes we decided we are buying him the basketball hoop that gets put into the ground cemented
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WTF CHUCK??...... You had to know that I was totally kidding.
Well not totally... My daughter was a slacker in house chores, but a great student. I really couldn't care as long as her grades were good and she had a job... She's doing very well in college right now, but let's just say she likes the shag better than the pole. Your kid will be just fine as long as he keeps his nose in the books, works a job, and does a bit of service ,(volunteerism). There's absolutely nothing wrong with paying other people to do everything for you.. I wish that I could afford to have everything done for me, but I can't, and truthfully, I enjoy doing certain things for myself. Peace man.... Buy a Slip & Slide and hook a hose up to it.... |
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snicker, snicker.....
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Time for some tough love or you're going to continue to play the part of the doormat. You need to demand respect back from the entire household, it would seem. We all have our issues and our baggage. We've all been through our share of tough times. No one gets a pass in civility, consideration and respect for others, just because we've had some rough patches. Sorry. |
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I just wanted to say WTF Chuck too...... |
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When my MIL died, this happened with my two girls and they actually became mean to my wife ad myself. A little counseling "enlightened" us to what was happening with them and that nose dive was averted.. It'll pass and they'll be just fine, but realize right now that there is a ton of stress on them , with the added illnesses. |
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PAGE 2 SEA!!!! Got it!!
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