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State to state. She isn't entitled to any of your retirement. The judge can award less but not anymore than 50%. When the wife and I were divorcing a long time ago I was getting 100% of my retirement. It is up to the separating spouse to be honorable or not. Also up to the judge but no one is entitled. |
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That is the unfortunate part. Considering all the concessions I am already making, I think at this point, it passed up being anywhere close to being fair. And as you know, I will not get a full AD retirement. I made damn sure she had a career, etc. but now she is letting greed take over. I just want it to be said and done, but now she wants to make sure that my 17 year old son is in the middle. If she keeps on, there will be no choice but to sell the house. I didn't want all of this to impact my youngest son anymore than it has, but yet, here we are.
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Don't attorneys want divorcing couples to hash it out as long as possible?
Don't they get paid by the hour? A quick resolution does not pad their pockets |
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**** that, demand that everything be sold, house included. All creditors are paid off and any cash left is split 50/50. Have to pay child support until the kid is 18 and if college is agreed to then you pay directly to the school each semester. If she wants 1/2 your retirement, then you demand 1/2 of hers. Kid may side with her, but he is all but an adult, time to make adult decisions. Go scorched earth until she becomes reasonable.
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You 'Scorched Earthers' must have a ****ing war chest at your disposal.
You're FAR better off busting your scorched ass on negotiations. Protect your assets and stop right there. |
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OP needs to hash it out, get it in writing, lawyers agree to the terms YOU TWO have set out. Get your ex away from the lawyers long enough to figure out what she wants, not what they say she wants. |
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Yup and if she doesn't listen because she is a **** then scorched earth it all.
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That's what I was prepared to do and when she realized it she thought better. I pulled a fast one on my wife. She had been researching lawyers. I found her notes and the one she circled I hired immediately. She was so pissed. |
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If you can't out think your wife and stay one step ahead then you are a dumbass.
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You ****ers miss me don't you? |
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Getting dirty is the only answer, threaten to tell the world about that night she got jiggy with a donkey at the in-laws farm and all bets are off.
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Once the emotions were over with it turned to war.
I hired that lawyer got her to agree to uncontested which was pretty evenly split. Told her after she signed I didn't have the money to file right there in the lawyer's office and that there was time. As soon as we left in separate cars I called the lawyer and filed it immediately. |
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