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04-08-2015, 5:27pm | #101 | ||||||
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I will tell those reading that my wife is NOT on board. She said it stresses her out too much. I don't even drive when we go anywhere. She drives so there is no aggravation and I am happy with that. I am not sure whether I am painting an accurate picture or if I am blowing it out of proportion. I have lost the ability to judge for myself how big the problem really is. It is a problem for my wife and that is enough to make it a serious problem. I fear I am too late on that front, but I can still fix me I hope. The number one thing that keeps me at a high stress is money. I am afraid of having nothing when I retire, which is possible, I am afraid of not staying employed until I retire. I am afraid that our entire house and all contents are now 7 year sold and will start failing left and right. I mean I could put myself in a padded room with all the crap swimming around in my head. It makes me a grenade with the pin pulled. I feel like a bad kid that doesn't want to be bad anymore, but can't seem to shake the reputation. |
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04-08-2015, 6:16pm | #103 | ||||||
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Its easy to say RELAX, but its very hard to do, sending you good wishes and strength my friend.
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04-08-2015, 6:23pm | #104 | ||||||
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Now we are getting somewhere. Fear is an amazing motivator. |
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Like I've posted, I bet you and I have much common ground. Sans presidential politics. Anyway...this ones for you. |
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Use your head. Think things through before you react to any given situation. You can't over-react if you take no action at all right? Everything in life can wait until you sort things out. EVERYTHING. Quote:
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I've never been a violent one when drinking. Booze only makes me horny and lustful. I'm a classic beer goggle man. 3-4 beers and I'm checking out even the chubby ladies.
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After reading the response to my post, I agree. Go see someone, and soon. My suggestion would be alone at first to spill the guts, then get the wife in with you when the Pro says it's time. If she doesn't want to go, well, that speaks volumes. I can understand her not being in NOW, I have no tolerance for her not WANTING to be in and be part of the solution.
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I have another friend that does meditation. He is pretty high strung too. He claims it did wonders. I am not sure I can really clear my mind enough to meditate. My brain is always "on" and runs at warp speed all over the place. There are some decent suggestions posted. I'll try almost anything. |
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Alone is where to start. BUT if those in your life arent willing to be a part of it, then there is much more you need to look at. Good luck. As others have said, I'm willing to talk if you feel the need/want. I ain't a pro and don't have the answers, but I can drink with the best of them. |
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Yeah, I may PM some people or call. There are many layers to this and I realize that it is hard to give advice when you don't know the entire story. I can say this. I am only a yeller. That is my release. Raise my voice. I have worked on my car and a wrench has flown or a door slammed but most of the time I am just cussing under my breath or loudly if no one is around. I will slam toolbox drawers too. It is not like I am smashing things in the house or anything. It really is like a bottle rocket. I quick Ziiiing, a loud POP and the whole event is over. It is the week of her not speaking to me that lasts the longest. |
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04-08-2015, 8:49pm | #113 | |||||||
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With that... dang, where do I start? Everyone remembers I work out of the Special Ed Department for our School District? Most of my time is spent is spent working with kiddos with behavioral issues. Now behavior issues rarely involve being bad per se- it generally means a kiddo has lost control and is in the midst of an epic temper tantrum. For my kiddos (and most big kiddos ), angry outbursts are nothing more than a communication disorder displaying itself. If looked at in this context, outbursts are simply the inability to articulate various frustrations. Generally, there's a 1. Setting event. Something that starts the pot boiling. Often something that has no apparent relationship to the impending outburst. 2. Escalations. Things that up the heat each time they're tripped. 3. Trigger event. Better known as the "last straw." Usually the person has been escalating for awhile, and the trigger event is the thing that sets off the explosion. 4. De-escalation cycle. A misnomer- the de-escalation can often hit escalation triggers and ramp right back up. Generally that ramp is steeper, and the peak much higher, than the initial outburst. 5. Cool down time. Just what it sounds like. The trick, as a Behavior Specialist, is to recognize where in the series a kiddo is. Keep in mind a kiddo has no way of recognizing this, much less developing the tools and strategies to avert the 2-3 stages. The long term fix is to give the kiddo the tools to articulate what's really bothering them. Once we can get to that point, we have a way to go in the classroom. It's my stock and trade- go figure. Don't think for a second that adults are any different. The bar is simply set a bit higher. |
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I used to get pissed off a lot in my younger days but since I'm older now I can get hurt in a fight so I have calmed down half of what I use to be. Road rage seems to be my undoing too many moron drivers. Ive thought of buying a piece of sh!t car and smashing some of the morons on the road throttles do get stuck.. |
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I'll tell you another really odd thing. This horrible person that I apparently am, is the same person that is the life of the party, the class clown, the one that keeps everyone laughing. Any one of my friends will tell you if you asked them to use one word to describe me, they would say "hilarious" or "funny" or something similar. How do these two polar opposites reside in the same person? I love to laugh. I love good jokes, funny movies, sarcasm, pratfalls, Three Stooges, any comedy.
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Most people would never guess that I sometimes pee on fire ants and try to drown them. I find it very satisfying, and relaxingly therapeutic.. I just wish I could hear their little screams.. |
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I saw someone share this today and thought it was worth sharing here as well.
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Indeed.
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