Strange Facebook Friend Request

[Mick]

Originally Posted by Dan Dlabay

I received a friend request on Facebook this past week. It was from someone I didn't know. Clicked on the the name and it was from a girl that lived in Wichita. I was going to delete it then I saw that she liked Ted Nugents page which I do and that she is a Trump supporter and liked cars as she had pictures of Cars and Coffee on her page. So I clicked accept. Later she message me to thank me for accepting. We chanted and I told her I was married and 66 She said she was single and 35 and had 1 daughter. The next day she messaged me and asked me to get on Google hangout because she doesn't like Facebook. So I did .Then she told be that she deactivated her Facebook account and I asked her why. She said she only wanted to talk to me. Thought that was kind of strange. Then she started call be babe when she texted me. She told me that she was in a bad relationship. One morning when I asked if she was getting her daughter ready fir school she said that she is in a boarding school. Now she is telling me that she loves me and dreams about me. Now she wants me to get her something for Christmas. As I said I made clear that I am married and old enough to be her father. She has sent be picture of her and she is a cute girl Now we have never met and never will as I am not going to leave my wife for her. So want does the experts of VBOT thing her deal is.

Originally Posted by Dan Dlabay

I don't have a cell phone so she don't have a phone #

How was she texting you if you don't have a cell phone?

[Anjdog2003]

Originally Posted by Mick

How was she texting you if you don't have a cell phone?

[Uncle Meat]

You have "Officially" been "Fished" kind sir.

U.M.

[Dan Dlabay]

Originally Posted by Mick

How was she texting you if you don't have a cell phone?

On Google hang out

[JetMechZ16]

Originally Posted by Dan Dlabay

I received a friend request on Facebook this past week. It was from someone I didn't know. Clicked on the the name and it was from a girl that lived in Wichita. I was going to delete it then I saw that she liked Ted Nugents page which I do and that she is a Trump supporter and liked cars as she had pictures of Cars and Coffee on her page. So I clicked accept. Later she message me to thank me for accepting. We chanted and I told her I was married and 66 She said she was single and 35 and had 1 daughter. The next day she messaged me and asked me to get on Google hangout because she doesn't like Facebook. So I did .Then she told be that she deactivated her Facebook account and I asked her why. She said she only wanted to talk to me. Thought that was kind of strange. Then she started call be babe when she texted me. She told me that she was in a bad relationship. One morning when I asked if she was getting her daughter ready fir school she said that she is in a boarding school. Now she is telling me that she loves me and dreams about me. Now she wants me to get her something for Christmas. As I said I made clear that I am married and old enough to be her father. She has sent be picture of her and she is a cute girl Now we have never met and never will as I am not going to leave my wife for her. So want does the experts of VBOT thing her deal is.

It all went wrong when you started chanting with someone not your wife.

In all seriousness end this relationship, if you can call it that, now. You are being scammed.

[Aerovette]

Have her "chant" you her picture with today's date written on paper or a newspaper. That will make him leave you alone.

[BOTY]

Originally Posted by aerovette

Have her "chant" you her picture with today's date written on paper or a newspaper. That will make him leave you alone.

[Steve_R]

OP is messing with us. He has to be because nobody is that dumb - well except a few over there ---------------------->

Then again this might be how rgregory found his wife so it might be legit.

[Dan Dlabay]

Originally Posted by JetMechZ16

It all went wrong when you started chanting with someone not your wife.

In all seriousness end this relationship, if you can call it that, now. You are being scammed.

I stopped chanting with her a couple days ago after she started to say the the things she began saying like she loved me.

[K-Spaz]

The girl in the pic is not 35

[sublime1996525]

Bahahahaha

[snide]

Originally Posted by Dan Dlabay

I stopped chanting with her a couple days ago after she started to say the the things she began saying like she loved me.

What is this "chanting" thing you speak of?

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by Mick

if my wife found out that I gave my cell phone number to a young woman I met on the internet, I expect that I would have a lot of explaining to do. YMMV.

Even chatting up young women on Social Media can be seen as questionable.

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by snide

What is this "chanting" thing you speak of?

Something that m0Ks do.

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by Steve_R

OP is messing with us. He has to be because nobody is that dumb

Actually, the elderly disproportionately fall victim to scams.

My friend's elderly mother fell for this exact scam a few years back. She ended up sending her entire life savings to her "boyfriend" and died penniless.

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by aerovette

My ex has me blocked and from my login, she doesn't even exist on FB. If I use a different login, I can see her page.

Link to her FB page? :lurk:

[Aerovette]

Your wife is testing you...

10. Rupert Holmes - Escape (The Piña Colada Song) - YouTube

[69camfrk]

Originally Posted by snide

What is this "chanting" thing you speak of?

They are already trying to conjure up evil spirits together.

[Mick]

Originally Posted by dvarapala

Even chatting up young women on Social Media can be seen as questionable.

Look OP, I don't know you from Adam, and you don't know me any better than I know you. I'm also not here to judge, since I am sure I am very far from perfect, and I have already said that the details are none of my business, and I mean that. But it appears you came here asking for some friendly advice, and I am trying to provide such, so I am going to try to say this more clearly, and then will STFU unless asked a specific question:

In my opinion, as a guy who is married, if the day of reckoning comes on this one (and I sincerely hope it doesn't), your story doesn't hang. You will need to do better.

Best of luck.

Mick.

[Dan Dlabay]

Originally Posted by Mick

Look OP, I don't know you from Adam, and you don't know me any better than I know you. I'm also not here to judge, since I am sure I am very far from perfect, and I have already said that the details are none of my business, and I mean that. But it appears you came here asking for some friendly advice, and I am trying to provide such, so I am going to try to say this more clearly, and then will STFU unless asked a specific question:

In my opinion, as a guy who is married, if the day of reckoning comes on this one (and I sincerely hope it doesn't), your story doesn't hang. You will need to do better.

Best of luck.

Mick.

No problem I came here looking for advice as I never experience something like this before and I appreciate all advice.