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03-30-2013, 1:28pm | #1 | ||||||
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Divorced guys...Question
Assuming it was NOT due to cheating, how did you know it was "over".
Again, assume no one was cheating. |
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03-30-2013, 1:30pm | #2 | ||||||
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This is a bad omen
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03-30-2013, 1:31pm | #3 | ||||||
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I got a text message and her stuff was gone.
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03-30-2013, 1:31pm | #4 | ||||||
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I could tell that it was over
When her lips met mine. It was an emptiness in her voice; Hesitation when she smiled. She didn't have to say a word It was just so plain to see. She had found what she was looking for And I knew it wasn't me. |
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^^^This,we just grew apart and had different goals in life.^^^
On with wife #2 and learned from my mistakes in what I wanted in my life and its so much better for both of us that we match up so well with each other. |
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03-30-2013, 1:50pm | #8 | ||||||
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First ex wanted kids, I wanted HOUSE FIRST!!!!......so she went to chase a lawyer lover she had in her past.....
second ex was a .gov spoiled overpaid bureaucrap in the DC region.... we had a nice house together, we did lots of improvements to it, but nothing was ever good enough for her royal Long Island stuck up ass.... so after two kids, she announced that 11 years was enough, and moved out with the kids.....I lasted about 15 months, found another gal..... neighbors reported it to her, and so she filed for divorce, bought me outta the house, I went across the freeway....eventually moved to Florida here.... |
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Can't answer due to the restriction on the question.
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I suspect the number of divorces that do not involve cheating, either physically or emotionally, is very very small.
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when she started saying...."beige, I think I'll paint the ceiling beige" when
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03-30-2013, 5:30pm | #13 | ||||||
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If you have to ask, it's over.
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I came to the conclusion that I was the only one trying to make it work. I was doing all of the giving and she was doing all of the taking. And because she tried to stab me with a kitchen knife.
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03-30-2013, 7:01pm | #16 | ||||||
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Looks like I will die an old bachelor. I have been able to tell when it was over with the girlfriends though.
Best of luck to you. |
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03-30-2013, 8:13pm | #17 | ||||||
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If you are asking it's done.
Sorry. |
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03-30-2013, 8:18pm | #18 | ||||||
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What's going on OP?
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03-30-2013, 8:21pm | #19 | ||||||
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age 4&6, kids fighting in the living room, around the kitchen corner.....
she shouting at them to quit fighting, shouts down to my basement office, where I trying to set up the next day's work....remodeling contractor, have to schedule shit to make the day livable, ....so I come up stairs and into the kitchen...she starts in on me over whatEVER, and so then she slaps ME, trying to provoke a clout to her jaw..... THAT was in very instant the love died..... |
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Might be able to be saved if you both agree to try to get some spark back. ( if you've both drifted apart thru time with no marriage breaking actions) Good luck. Also, if you do go for a divorce, get the best lawyer you can afford. That is NOT the time to bargain shop |
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