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06-30-2021, 3:53am | #21 | ||||||
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Believe me, living a good life is the best revenge. I experienced that myself. You can do it.
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I’m so sorry. That is horrible.
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Went through my divorce around 1990 but no children were involved thank God. Sorry you're going through this and hopefully everything will be better for you.
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Was served only a few hours ago.
I will make sure there is NOTHING for her to get. Already looking to purchase a new home. She THINKS, will have a penny left for her to profit on! Guess what, I'm going to let your lawyer take you for every dime he can. He told me via phone that there will be NOTHING left when he's done. Screw you! Should have never made me your enemy. Going separate ways is fine. No problem. Police at my door, anger, treating me badly! KARMA is going to catch up to you! |
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When my kids Mom and I divorced thirty years ago I told her I would come out better than her. She didn't think so. She got the house, her car, and I paid child support and insurance on the kids. I got my two cars and my clothes. But I knew no matter how much money she had she'd always be broke. Just one of those types.
Fast forward to now. We have one house here almost paid for; one in Florida along with an extra 1.25 acre lot, both paid for; signed a contract for another house here last Thursday. Plus I have had literally two hundred cars over the years and have six now (all paid for). She is still renting. |
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Living better is the answer. My ex has an apartment not a house A car payment not a car paid for Credit card debt out the ass 200 / month for hair bullshit 80 every few weeks for nail bullshit Supporting her daughter that I'm sure is not and has no intention of working (at 28). I'm not happy, but I am living better financially. ZERO debt and zero explanations needed for where I go and how long I was gone...or what I spent. I SERIOUSLY had to explain to her on the phone one day, why I spent $11.00 at Walgreens. |
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I took a swift kick in the balls during my divorce last year and spent more than a couple months in a bad place mentally and financially. Getting divorced at 58 ain't for the weak. One big hang up was my age. At 40 you've got 20+ years to get back on your feet. At almost 60 your earning power is substantially less. (This is why I asked the OP upthread how old he was) I think there's a happy medium between constantly worrying about money and not giving a flying **** about it. |
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Just curious: Did any of you divorced guys have an amicable divorce? Maybe even use mediation instead of hiring lawyers and going to court?
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I told her early on I was willing to spend every penny of mine and hers if I needed to. Lawyers were the only ones that were going to come out on top. We would meet for coffee or breakfast and talk and discuss things, but once her 401k came in to the divorce discussion, the friendliness and contact ended. Time is kind and I have forgotten some of the details, but it stayed pretty civil. |
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For my divorce; I got the house, all furnishings (except for the bedroom set), my Corvette. In turn, she didn't have to pay alimony. I was recovering from a serious health probelm... not working at the time. |
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KILL KILL KILL ,,,isn't how he does business. He'd fight for whatever I asked him to but he'd also advise me when it was better to just walk away rather than spending $1000.00 to fight for a $200.00 item. I also agreed to a few things I probably didn't have to but the thing was dragging on and I didn't have the stomach for it. |
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