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04-07-2015, 8:01pm | #61 | ||||||
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Thanks man. I may take you up on the offer. I'm kind of in a funk over it.
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On a serious note, I find taking time to think about my actions before exploding helps me. Make sure you let your wife know you're looking for guidance / help on this. Hopefully she will relax a slight bit to help you take the edge off too. Best of luck Jeff |
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Just to lighten this thread up a bit:
Maybe you just need to get laid more often? And if it doesn't help, well, you win regardless |
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Just chill my friend... I know you're a good guy!
For what it's worth... I found my peace in Jesus. I was so far down having lost my woman, house, and job due to my brain injury that if I had a gun... well... Christ saved me... not some Christian wacko thing... HE DID. Things have gone so well for me since, it couldn't be "coincidence". There. I said it. |
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At the end of a day, no matter what has happened I know, not just think, but know deep in my heart that God, my wife, and my dog love me. That's enough.
If I haven't made your day, well, I'll try again tomorrow. I'm not perfect, I don't know everything, and if I'm wrong, I'll say I'm sorry. Only in God is my soul at rest, in Him is my salvation. |
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Get off the forums and the internet.
Find a hobby. I use to have a heavy bag that was made of rough canvas in the garage. It was originally white but ended up a nasty brown color from the blood. I started out using boxing gloves. I got no satisfaction. I went to quick wraps...still no satisfaction. Not until I went bare knuckle and I could feel it and see the blood on the bag did I really feel satisfied after 5-10 minutes. Got to the point where all I had to do was picture myself hitting the bag and I could feel it ripping my knuckles to shreds. That has been satisfaction enough. Oh and get off the internet. Did I say that already? |
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Do you have a dog, Aerovette? If not, consider getting one. They can have a very calming influence on your life.
If you do have one, just try and be the person your dog thinks you are. |
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4 dogs. One is mine. He won't eat if I am not in the room by his bowl. We love each other. He's my bud.
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Tough love time: You're unhappy with your current station in life and you've listed it as a major factor in your anger. Fair enough. So, what are you going to do about it? Sit around and fester over it? Or take the steps to make some changes? Take control of your life. Don't dwell on what you haven't done thus far; focus on what you can do for your future. Take a few college courses. Do something that gives you a sense of forward momentum. Find a therapist (very soon) that will help you and will (eventually) be able to help your marriage. On a daily basis, go to the gym. Take a jog around the neighborhood. Work off some aggression. Big changes are simply the sum of small decisions. |
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I've been watching this thread all day...I don't have any solutions, I think NAV nailed it...and we're on your side. Without getting into details, I'll say I've had problems and therapy and even meds do help. Go get that pro help NOW!!
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Without reading all the posts, Effexor XR has done wonders for me. Things that used to make me nut up in a second just don't bother me anymore. It takes a real man to realize they need some help! Whatever you do, I hope the outcome turns out well.
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At the end of everything that you will do - or what happens - it all comes down to the choice you make about it. You are choosing to get mad or angry - dont.
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try taking the NY subway, from the loud music playing, fighting, eating and throwing trah on the floor, to taking 3 seats, to people that stink , to rats on train, etc etc etc, and lately my train has been going local for the past 2 weeks so a train ride thats supposed to take 1/2 hour takes a hour, yea stress really SUCKS!!!!
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I have a very bad habit of forgetting that I am talking to far more people than those that have posted. I forget that this is the www sometimes and that I am airing dirty laundry for the world. I do plan to take everyone's input into consideration. I'll be a work in progress for a while I guess. Thank you all.
When I was a bachelor, I never had to address this stuff. I mean I would work on my car and bust a knuckle and a wrench would fly or a door would slam and it never impacted anyone else so I never had any reason to actually evaluate my actions. Now that there is someone with me 24/7 seeing my every move for the last 7 plus years, I guess I am realizing (yeah, I am slow sometimes) that it is doing damage. I always reset to zero (or 9 in my case) after an outburst, but she doesn't see that. She only knows that I lost my chit again over something small like dropping a light bulb or not being able to find something I just used two minutes ago. I keep it together for a few minutes but I can feel the boil and it is out on display before I know it. It sucks to learn you are not the perfect person you want to be. |
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I would love to smoke a joint but since being a supervisor on both my jobs and while i really loved to a couple puffs of the weed would help 1000%, why are you not taking puffs, soon it will become legal, i cant wait, need to take the edge off
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