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what you need is something to occupy your time, something to release your anger...
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hopefully this thread is for everyone, i plan on taking 3 days off for 2 weeks, work has really been screwing with me not money wise, just the hassle, i know money is needed but i guess i need a release for a while
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50 years ago, back in college, a classmate/dorm buddy was in B screwal with me.....and so in Economics/Marketing back then the Profs would talk of a Marginal Propensity.....at what price point would a customer buy a product or NOT buy it.....metering the 'Change in Inclination'.....
SO my buddy came up with....a HIGH MPPO......as a dorm room funny that for some odd reason has been a conversational 'thing' with me since then.... High Marginal Propensity to get PISSED OFF!!!!!! Lemme tell you all, I have a hair trigger on the insanity and lack of common sense I see in every day life....have for decades....mainly working on shit, houses, cars, electronics.....you name it.... So like this AM, call up the 'puter' and the .net is dead, the WIFI is dead...look at the little sender....dead, no blue light....WTF?? took it off the front panel and plugged into the back panel on the main frame....it took off and is running fine today.....why?? |
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OP, how old are you? That's not a gouge in any way.
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Tell him to see about getting his testosterone levels checked.
Check out some of the symptoms here: https://lowtcenter.com/symptoms/ I have the same temperament issues and I am looking into getting mine checked. I had an old boss get his checked and it wasn't in balance. Once he got it back at the right level he was able to deal with life much better. Women need to get their hormones checked also. Especially after having kids and getting older. Trust me on that one, personal experience talking. - Chris (TxAg) |
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But don't let that laid back personality fool you one bit, she tough as NAILS, she got lots of GIT UP AND GO!!!!.....age 63.....all 130 lbs of her.....we laugh back and forth, exchange quips/shots, and laugh our asses off..... Some times I get too intense, and she just drops out, saying 'I"m outta here, settle DOWN' so I do... I never mad at HER or any other wife in the past.....just coping with stupid crap that drives me nukkin futz..... |
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Acknowledging you have a problem is part of the solution. I would speak with your wife, and let her know how you feel. P.S- It's easy to get mad and throw your nerves at somebody that you know will forgive you... it doesn't make it right. |
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Yvonne, on the other hand, talks to me... gets me to realize what's happening; and together... I calm down from the situation. |
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You make it better by recognizing the behavior pattern and working on the real issue at hand. Usually what causes the angry response has little to nothing to do with the underlying issues. |
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Good Thread.
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Aero- I think the first thing for you to know is that you're not alone. Everyone has something that sets them off. You're not unique in that way.
For me, what got me over my hair trigger explosions (they were only occasional) was to mentally step outside of myself and ask "what is it that is really bothering me", and 99% of the time, it wasn't what I was exploding about. It was misdirected or emotions that I had held in and were just manifesting as anger at stupid little things. I know what used to cause me to explode, and that's for me to know, but for you, maybe have a long introspective look at your anger and what is the real deeper reason that maybe you're not realizing is the cause. oh, and stay away from the chas threads over there ya big stupid |
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Anger is a tricky thing to deal with man. I've been through all sorts of "assistance" with it.
Feel free to give me a call any time to chew the fat over it. Be glad to espouse what little wisdom I have. Scott
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