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[Hardluck]

Originally Posted by UniqueDoug

In your answer you used today as a snapshot for years of squabbling, some would call that intellectually dishonest. What about the days of posts about Neece, some rude, without Wez or Neece posting. Was that their fault too?



It's no surprise that a portion (or maybe all) of these 20-30 people wouldn't want to take some accountability to what has transpired. Nobody does. It's human nature.

Maybe we could just take a roll call. Who here takes some accountability in being an integral part of the shit fest that has occurred?

For crying out loud will you just give it a rest! Either you see it or you don't and you obviously don't! Go for a boat ride and then out to dinner, you'll feel better!

[z06psi]

Maybe Doug got dinner also.

[z06psi]

Originally Posted by Hardluck

For crying out loud will you just give it a rest! Either you see it or you don't and you obviously don't! Go for a boat ride and then out to dinner, you'll feel better!

You beat me to it.

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by UniqueDoug

NEWudERA was UniqueDoug and was put dormant by a mod. Hope this helps.

It would if I knew what that meant.

[UniqueDoug]

Originally Posted by C3C7NIC

Here is the one factor you are repeatedly leaving out when creating an argument for "shared accountability"

Many of us, myself included made public, as well as private PM attempts to reconcile, THEY rejected. Wez initially was receptive, but clearly she told him not to, and his tone quickly did a 180.

If that does not change your perspective, I am unable to convince you. NO "f"ing way I am going to chase after anyone begging for forgiveness, especially when I carried less than half the guilt My JOKING was misconstrued on THEIR behalf. Go back and read the CFOT fight club thread.

I would be willing to surmise that Thomas is reachable and can be fairly down to earth, but he lives with a mentally unstable individual, and the key is he lives with HER not us.... so obviously he is going to side with the one most likely to cut his ballZ off when he falls asleep if he pisses em off.

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She has been able to name call and be a total bitch as she sees fit, but anyone that responds is vilified. Fuq that! "I was wrong, I misunderstood, I am an idiot, I'm sorry." are not in her repertoire.

So we’ve come full circle. Earlier you said resolution was the only solution (which I disagreed with) but now you seem to be saying it’s a lost cause (which is my stance).

I will say, as someone who suffers from mental illness, you’ll be worlds apart from reaching civility if one keeps bringing up diseases others may or may not have. Or talking about man hands or other features, and speculating publicly about suspected marital problems, etc etc.

Neece isn’t doing any of that, you all are. Just sayin

Originally Posted by C3C7NIC

If you are serious......you have addressed the wrong audience. The princess (lurking) should be your main target.


Let it be noted, I offered white flag more than one and now opportunity to hash it all out once and for all..... but as usual all we get is a bunch of

Resolution is the only option here.... ignore clearly has not worked, ask me how I know. I ignored for months but..... we are still here.

[C3C7NIC]

Originally Posted by Hardluck

For crying out loud will you just give it a rest! Either you see it or you don't and you obviously don't! Go for a boat ride and then out to dinner, you'll feel better!

I know Dougs favorite act is “devils advocate”. He just loves to get very very very very lengthy, circular discussions going.

[Steve_R]

Only one thread started by adog and none started by dvarapala on the first page over there. When's the last time that happened?

[C3C7NIC]

Originally Posted by Steve_R

Only one thread started by adog and none started by dvarapala on the first page over there. When's the last time that happened?

Steve, I’ll go with “What was 2 weeks ago? for $500”.

[Murray]

Originally Posted by UniqueDoug

Neece isn’t doing any of that, you all are. Just sayin

You really don’t get out much do you. There are a ton of examples and that’s only the ones directed at me.

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by UniqueDoug

Neece isn’t doing any of that, you all are. Just sayin

So it's only us angry, gay, unfunny bar patrons - some of whom smoke cigarettes and rub down with Ben Gay - who are throwing personal insults around?

[dvarapala]

Originally Posted by Steve_R

Only one thread started by adog and none started by dvarapala on the first page over there. When's the last time that happened?

I'm gonna guess 2001.

[Anjdog2003]

Originally Posted by C3C7NIC

Here is the one factor you are repeatedly leaving out when creating an argument for "shared accountability"

Many of us, myself included made public, as well as private PM attempts to reconcile, THEY rejected. Wez initially was receptive, but clearly she told him not to, and his tone quickly did a 180.

If that does not change your perspective, I am unable to convince you. NO "f"ing way I am going to chase after anyone begging for forgiveness, especially when I carried less than half the guilt My JOKING was misconstrued on THEIR behalf. Go back and read the CFOT fight club thread.

I would be willing to surmise that Thomas is reachable and can be fairly down to earth, but he lives with a mentally unstable individual, and the key is he lives with HER not us.... so obviously he is going to side with the one most likely to cut his ballZ off when he falls asleep if he pisses em off.

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She has been able to name call and be a total bitch as she sees fit, but anyone that responds is vilified. Fuq that! "I was wrong, I misunderstood, I am an idiot, I'm sorry." are not in her repertoire.

I just had an Orgasm keep talking baby.

[UniqueDoug]

Originally Posted by TPCSawgrass

I too sent a truce pm and I don’t think it lasted a month. Doug, whatever way you see it is how it is....for you

I see that everyone involved has some portion of accountability, maybe not 50-50 maybe 10% maybe 5%, but it takes two to tango. Like I pointed out, there’s evidence in this thread alone that people initiate remarks towards neece, unprovoked. Surely you’re not going to dispute that?

Even with all my battles I’m willing to admit I am part of the equation, with my personality, even with my current set of trolls. Not 50-50 but yeah, I’m partially accountable.

[UniqueDoug]

Originally Posted by TPCSawgrass

You really don’t get out much do you. There are a ton of examples and that’s only the ones directed at me.

Neece isn’t active here in this thread so how could she be doing all the stuff I cited has been done against her in the last week? Doesn’t reconcile.

[UniqueDoug]

Originally Posted by Hardluck

For crying out loud will you just give it a rest! Either you see it or you don't and you obviously don't! Go for a boat ride and then out to dinner, you'll feel better!

Just getting through this “resolution” phase and talking it out, thanks for adding nothing to the conversation. lol

It’s obviously important to a handful here as they’ve had neece‘s name in their mouths for the past week. Just sayin

[Murray]

Originally Posted by UniqueDoug

I see that everyone involved has some portion of accountability, maybe not 50-50 maybe 10% maybe 5%, but it takes two to tango. Like I pointed out, there’s evidence in this thread alone that people initiate remarks towards neece, unprovoked. Surely you’re not going to dispute that?

Even with all my battles I’m willing to admit I am part of the equation, with my personality, even with my current set of trolls. Not 50-50 but yeah, I’m partially accountable.

Okay.... what responsibility do you own for Der following you around like a lost puppy?

What’s mine? No idea, maybe being sarcastic with someone that has virtually no sense of humor. She tore into me one time so bad I actually reached out to someone and asked what I could do to make it better.

Their answer?? She has no clue, leave a lot of smilies, rolling on the floor laughings and anything else you can think of to show you’re joking because she hasn’t a clue. And that was a friend of hers

[UniqueDoug]

Originally Posted by dvarapala

So it's only us angry, gay, unfunny bar patrons - some of whom smoke cigarettes and rub down with Ben Gay - who are throwing personal insults around?

Well maybe I missed something but where are the insults from neece in this thread?

[MadInNc]

Originally Posted by UniqueDoug

Just getting through this “resolution” phase and talking it out, thanks for adding nothing to the conversation. lol

It’s obviously important to a handful here as they’ve had neece‘s name in their mouths for the past week. Just sayin

Quit poking the Fugging BeeHive!!!

[Steve_R]

Originally Posted by C3C7NIC

Steve, I’ll go with “What was 2 weeks ago? for $500”.

You win!!!

[z06psi]

Originally Posted by TPCSawgrass

You really don’t get out much do you. There are a ton of examples and that’s only the ones directed at me.

Any drywall or perm comments.