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09-08-2011, 8:45pm | #41 | ||||||
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No PMs or email? WTF?
So much for confidentiality. short & to the point. My "darling ex" cheated on me with a so called very good friend. The trust was totally destroyed. In my case it was "marriage over". Talk to your friend and listen to what he says, how he says it and if there are any subtle messages/thoughts he's not saying outloud. YOU need to help listen and keep a clear head to the FACTS. Good luck, he needs a good friend right now. Jeff |
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Just had another talk with him. He reached out to the other guy via text and told him that he would like to speak with him and also to stop communicating with his wife. No response.
He also had dinner tonight with his wifes father. Apparently her father hasn't talked to her since this all came out and that he understands and respects my friend for what ever decision he decides to make. Wasn't expecting to hear that.. He has calmed down a bit and his wife after work tomorrow is getting out of town for the weekend with her sister so that they can both have some space. If i had to guess they are going to try and work it out. He's a better man than me in that regard. The wife and i changed our plans for tomorrow night. She is going shopping with a friend for a new dress for the wedding so that i can spend the night with him to see where his head is at. Still trying to bring him back with me for the week. He hasn't canceled his vacation yet with his DM which is good news. He's really considering it. |
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Once a cheat always a cheat...
As for the friend, he'd get curb stomped "American History X" style. |
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Harry keeps us on our toes...and keeps Google in business. Although, I knew the "Scylla and Charybdis" reference...from the Police song "wrapped around your finger" ...When I heard it on the album Synchronicity, it intrigued me, so I looked it up then (what a job that was, pre internet & Google). And yes, I was probably smokin' a joint while listening to Synchronicity for the 1st time in '83...and prolly doin' bong hits while scanning a dictionary & encyclopedia. |
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I sincerely believe the kids' mom had an affair on a business trip in the mid 80's so when she wanted the divorce, I was more concerned for the kids than her....
Given the problems the kids have now, I"d say she has been a poor parent..... |
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I'm pretty sure there's more to this story as well. Wives don't generally hop into bed with someone else when everything's just beyond perfect at home. Ya never know what goes on behind closed doors- even when it's close friends involved. |
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no pics of the cheating whore..thread sucks, close it down
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Just checked into the hotel room. Time for a power nap. Later. |
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However, since it's already happened, another way of looking at it is "I value my relationship enough to look at the reasons why someone might betray me like this and decide together if we wish to stay together and try to work it out." |
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On counts one, two and three. |
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Went to dinner with him and his wife.
Gee that was awkward. He's surronded by his wifes family who all know. Meanwhile he's only told me and the guy who his wife cheated withs exwife. He's not getting any objective opinions at all. Everyone talking to him has his wife's best interests in mind. |
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