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Old 06-20-2022, 8:37pm   #41
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Still drinking? I must have missed that part. If that's the case, then put me down for $20 on another meltdown and another Baker Act in 6 months or less or when the $$$ run out.
I haven’t had a drop or smoked since 6/9

I get the fascination, but I don’t understand the lying
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Thanks bro, we still need to hook up sometime in the near future, I feel like I’ve already met you
I'm maybe 2.5 hours north of you. Don't come here as most of my friends are drinkers and I don't want to bring you to that environment.
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I haven’t had a drop or smoked since 6/9

I get the fascination, but I don’t understand the lying
Lying?
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I don't buy a bit of it. I think his entire deal is an epic troll.
U r wrong
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Thanks. Our monthly video call with her was today. Those are never fun.
That sucks the wanky very much bad
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My step sister was bipolar, as well. Diagnosed as a teenager (back when they used to call it manic depressive.) She passed away a few years ago at the age of 53. Heart attack. Sadly, it happened after she had gotten her life back together and had maintained sobriety for two years. The heart damage appears to have been caused by alcoholism due to self-medicating, which was an active choice on her part.

Anyhow, I agree with what you’ve said with regard to recognizing that someone is already around the bend. Based on personal experience, I would also add these behaviors: Lack of humility. Lack of remorse in the face of causing obvious and profound damage to relationships. Manipulative behavior that is solely focused on self-preservation and gratification…even when it is apparent that it is impacting others negatively.

Note that my step sister’s mental illness did not preclude her from knowing right from wrong. She was aware of right from wrong. It did cause apathy, though, so right and wrong was a moot point.

I wish Doug well. He should have stayed in the treatment facility for longer. I hope he is actively involved in some sort of outpatient care.
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I haven’t had a drop or smoked since 6/9

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Good for you.

I misunderstood one of your posts over there. I apologize. I sincerely hope you get and stay well.
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Lying?
Yes, when Steve said I was still drinking
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Good for you.

I misunderstood one of your posts over there. I apologize. I sincerely hope you get and stay well.
Thank you, apology accepted. Yes I was drinking during my trip to Nashville last year
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Thank you, apology accepted. Yes I was drinking during my trip to Nashville last year
Steve is good people and can admit being wrong. Good stuff
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Oh, BTW, @UniqueDoug, you will still be "Sperggie" to me after self diagnosing

Sirius, hope you get better and stay that way.
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Wishing you all the best Dougie
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Thoughts and prayers?
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I said it in 2015 and again a couple of years ago. I'm not happy that he's got issues, but people who said he was just trolling all this time, well.... which is it? is he pulling an internet con job? or is he broken? Regardless, he's got issues either way.
If you can just take a brief moment and quit patting yourself on the back, I never denied I had mental illness, as matter fact I’ve been talking openly about it for a decade plus. All this confirms is another diagnosis by a medical professional.

The bizarre dynamic of this is even though there is an epidemic of mental illness (and addiction) in this country, I’m the only one on two forums who seems to be suffering from it
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If you can just take a brief moment and quit patting yourself on the back, I never denied I had mental illness, as matter fact I’ve been talking openly about it for a decade plus. All this confirms is another diagnosis by a medical professional.

The bizarre dynamic of this is even though there is an epidemic of mental illness (and addiction) in this country, I’m the only one on two forums who seems to be suffering from it
Wrong. You are the only one who is still alive who makes and effort to put it out there for the forums to see. It's a cry for help. Please don't lie to yourself because you can't do it with us. Saying this with peace and love in my little black heart that is probably three sizes too small.
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If you can just take a brief moment and quit patting yourself on the back, I never denied I had mental illness, as matter fact I’ve been talking openly about it for a decade plus. All this confirms is another diagnosis by a medical professional.

The bizarre dynamic of this is even though there is an epidemic of mental illness (and addiction) in this country, I’m the only one on two forums who seems to be suffering from it

I never patted myself on the back despite your accusations over the years, i was explainingwhy i don't interact with you, and tbh, assumed you were actually in distress, and hoped others would see it and stop goading you into going deeper into whatever troubled you, and yes, i'm breaking that rule, despite you chasing me around threads being a complete ass trying to get my attention for a long time. I won't breat it again.

Get better Doug.
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This shit is just ridiculous.
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I PM'ed Doug years ago about depression at the other forum. My heart went out to him. Depression is a tough battle to go through with. The man is a hurting dude. I know he has faith in God, maybe why he is still around. A lot of his posts are a way of crying out for help. He can be annoying but deep down he is hurting. Sometimes we need to show some compassion since we're not fighting the demons he is. Just an opinion.
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I remember Doug from way back over there. He wore his religion on his sleeve, talked about personal things with the occasional girl he would date. I grew tired of it and did not read his post after awhile. I was surprised to see he is having these problems.

Depression is a horrible affliction. I would love to see Doug overcome it. One generally can't overcome it by ones self. Hope he gets the effective help he needs.
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It’s real. Our daughter-in-law has been in a resident treatment program for the last 5 years for severe depression and bipolar. It’s unlikely she’ll ever be well enough to go home to our son and two grandsons. I see a lot of Doug’s symptoms in her before treatment. It’s incredibly sad to watch, and without professional treatment it won’t end well for Doug.
You can’t draw conclusions about someone you’ve never met -which is largely predicated on shit they type on a car forum- based on someone you know personally.

Is there an element of truth in FPD’s rants? Perhaps. A dented Bronco is still a dented Bronco.

I’m sorry to hear about your DiL. I’m sure that makes for a difficult life for everyone involved.
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