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06-29-2021, 3:39pm | #1 | ||||||
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Divorce coming near an end.
I'm pretty sure that my soon to be ex is ass raping me, but in the end, it is better than being miserable the rest of my life. She is getting the house, approx $150k in equity, the furniture I bought with no help from her, child support for the next year, even though I will have my own house, and my kid can stay with me, and 50% of my .mil retirement until I'm dead, starting at 59 years old and some change. I leave with my cars and bikes which I bought, and the clothes on my back. It makes me feel better about totally supporting her while she pursued her masters degree, making her car payments, paying her credit cards off etc. Yep, I've come out smelling like a rose on this one.....Greed has no bounds with her, and I realized it early on but was too stupid to dump her in the 90's.
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Having been married almost 45 years to the love of my life I can’t begin to imagine what you’re going through. Hopefully you can move on albeit poorer. Good luck.
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Been there, all behind me now, I survived.
One day, that greed will bite her in the ass. Make the best of it, best of luck.
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Sorry man. My financial advisor told me to never get divorced.
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Due to inflation they are no longer free
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Cheaper to keep her.
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Well, you can regret the material things you lost, but it sounds like the major benefit to you was ending a painful relationship with a total shrew. You're better off, bud. It will get better, and now you can take proactive steps to make your life better.
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How old are you?
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Hope it works out well for you. My younger brother has been married for over 35 years. Older brother, married 4 times, single right now. Older sister made it to 20 years, divorced/single too. Who knows why things work/don't work. |
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That sucks.
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I'm already moving in a good direction. If she ever finds someone else to put up with her, I feel sorry for them. They are nothing but a paycheck in the end.
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Enjoy your new life and freedom!
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First, congrats on being "almost there"
Karma works in mysterious ways, you just keep moving forward and you'll find the best revenge is to just enjoy your life |
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smart man Nope. That math does not always work out. Fixed It sucks no matter what. Worse when kids are involved. |
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I think you should get a lawyer. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you are getting screwed.
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