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03-11-2014, 7:34pm | #21 | ||||||
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Seriously...she couldn't decide that before she finished all those years of law school? Tell her come back to work or she'll wind up like...us.
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Maybe she needs to work as a waitress at Denny's for a year to reset her priorities.
Sorry man, I know this has to really suck |
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I have 2 adult daughters who love me and respect me - as their Dad, but I doubt either would want to work for me. That's a difficult situation in many cases.
I agree with DAB, would give her some time and some space to allow her to experience consequential learning. I'm a huge believer in that. Love her, encourage her, then kick her ass if necessary! |
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I'm sure this will be good but hardly something a father will relate to his daughter regardless of the current situation.
Larry this is just further affirmation that for whatever reason she is retreating from an adult role. She is concerned about a team name for a board game? |
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Spence....You now know what you need to do.
Don't forget the pics! |
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I'm sure your firm is lax and pleasant and for her being young she's just making sure that the element of being a part of a decision for someone's life or livelihood or both is something she wants to be involved in. I wish the best for her and your relationship with her. Edit: Forgot the temper bold part. All of us have inner tempers, just admit it now |
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Spence, I know this isn't fully applicable, but let me tell you about my friend Bret. He graduated undergrad in 3 1/2 yrs and went to law school. He graduated, and worked for several different attorneys, disliking each position more than the last. He then worked for Anderson Consulting (remember Arthur Anderson?) for a while and hated that, telling me, "I feel like we are just here to rip off the client and bill hours," or something to that effect. His next job, and finally true calling, was as a history professor at a local college. He's the department chair, and he absolutely loves teaching, loves everything about it except for the politics, which are unavoidable most any place.
I think she is throwing in the towel too early. Is there some other law type job she could work at? Another good friend of mine works for ICE as a lawyer, deporting illegals. There are other jobs, particularly state and federal jobs, that consider a JD as a real doctorate degree when formulating pay rates. Maybe something that she could do that the law degree is applicable to? One other thing......I'd kind of have to insist that she give you some kind of notice, if she hasn't already. Can she see her current caseload through to fruition? Can she at least give 2 weeks, and make it the best two weeks of her short career with you? Anyway, I feel for you, you want to give your daughter a gift, the gift of financial security, and I really admire that. I hope you both can resolve this without damaging the father/daughter bond. OK, now, with the level of (surprisingly good) advice and caring demonstrated in this thread, you need to show your appreciation to the VB by either springing for everybody's Barn Raising trip, or, failing that, making with the daughter pics. |
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I've known some 'professional' students in my life. They enjoyed the college lifestyle with no intention of using the education for a career. Try not to judge her right now...give her some more time and see what happens. I know you are in shock...but, young people make rash decisions. What does her mom think?
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