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02-15-2016, 5:55pm | #1 | ||||||
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Divorce...
Well, it looks like I've hit that time of life. It just doesn't work me any more. Never thought it would happen, and hopefully I don't completely lose my ass, but it has hit the skids. So....don't say you're sorry or anything, it's been a long time coming, and I can no longer live with the obstacles. I do hate it for my kids, but hopefully they will be better off. That is all.....And oh, no I'm not gonna kill myself or any shit like that. It is a relief.....
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Are you serious? I really hate to hear this.
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I'll explain things to ya sometime. Oh, and for those of you that I talk on the phone with on a regular basis, my number has changed, but you will get the new one soon. Yeah Michelle, it sort of sucks, but it will be better in the end I think.
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Well, damn. I wanted the divorce from my first husband, but it was still rough. Just keep in mind that there is life after, and it can be very, very good.
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Best of luck to you.
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Well that sucks.
Can't say I haven't been there through. |
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Best of luck. |
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I married the first time in '72 age 28 divorced by age 31 or so, met the Ex/kids mom in '77 at age 33/34 she left and took the kids when I was about 40-41 for no reason I can discern.....so I moved across the freeway to say close for the kids....by that time arthritis started in....this all in '90 or so, stuck it out till they old enough to fly by themselves and moved to Florida in '97.....
about two years later met Linda here.....now I am 71 pushing 72 in a second, and she is 64..... I look back sometimes in the middle of the night, when awake and can't sleep and wonder that I blew it big time by not having a solid life plan with the first ex......the second ex was just a mistake all the way around...... at this point wife and I are just planning our funerals......not that anything is imminent that we KNOW of anyway.....just that time of life....Dad was 79, Mom was '94, wife's dad was in his mid 50's....smoking/cancer, her mom is 94 and stays here most days.....easy to get along with, just stares at the tube all day....deaf as a stone, I hate hollering at her, just not me...so it's hand signals.... |
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Good luck in whatever the future holds for you James.
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Real Sorry to hear James.
You got my number bro, call me if you want to vent or need moral support. |
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Sorry to hear of this but it sounds like the die is cast...
Wishing you and your kids all the very best...... |
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Well that sucks but sometimes you just have to recognize the situation for what it is and move on
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Sorry to hear sir, we all wish you the best.
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sorry to hear, how many years are you married?
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Things must have really taken a turn for the worse since I was last there.
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Well you did say not to say I'm sorry for you or anything. Best of luck. |
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Best of luck moving forward.
When I went thru my divorce, I went thru the entire range of emotions. Turned out the divorce was one of the best things that happened. ( we didn't have kids ) You're one day closer to your new beginning James Jeff |
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Hope the transition to single is turbulence free.
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Best of luck to you.
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