My wife and her sister here in the Jax Fl. region went out to the ancient family home town in Alabama...and brought wife's mother and an aunt/mom's sister here to NE Florida,.....so they split up the care....Wife's mom passed last winter/spring.....so buried next to her hubby/wife's father.....but now we stuck with the aunt and due to age/wear and tears.....it's a bit mutch for us to look after the aunt now.....similar age 90.....totally helpless, chair/walked to from bath/bed/food......
Wife if suffering badly with the lifting/elder care going on for some ten years now, mutch less ME tired of the routine dragging down our lives with it.....
SO the .gov here is not helpful one damn bit, burying wife/sister in bureaucrapic BS just silly crap....
SO I have said for wife to call ER, have the aunt picked up OR just drive her to the ER, and let it go from there, get the hospital to access a nursing home.....and get it OVER with.......nurse stops by once a week to check vitals.....
anyone with any experience with this crap??
