People that have done that to themselves are impossible to deal with unless they get sober through a program. I have a 40 something year old brother in law who was the baby of the family that is trying to get sober to be approved for a liver transplant. Even if approved, he has no insurance or money, drank all that. He still gets drunk and goes drunk posting on social media and has called and threatened my wife. She still cares, I could care less. His abuse of his sister is just inexcusable, to make threats of violence is just plain hateful. My wife says it's because he's out of his mind, I say it's because he's a self centered dick who only cares about getting that next bottle.
He seems to be making progress, again I don't really care. I must be a horrible person as well. We should start a club.
