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Originally Posted by Mike Mercury
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The big mistake was getting married.
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Originally Posted by 69camfrk
I was never anything more than supplemental income.
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That's all we ever are.
There's no point in trying to be fair, in a divorce situation. The more you give, the more they'll take. Whether her lawyer tells her she can get more, or her friends tell her that she's entitled to everything. Doesn't matter if you cheated or not, or if she cheated or not. As far as she's concerned, YOU OWE HER!
However, you don't owe her shit. Take care of the youngest kid, obviously. Since she clearly wants to ruin you financially, do the same to her. Sell the house, pay off the debts. Walk away from this with as little debt as possible.
Don't worry about her being in financial ruin when the dust settles. She has a vagina that she'll use to get financial security from someone else.
Good luck to you!