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Old 05-30-2020, 9:48am   #91
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Originally Posted by C3C7NIC View Post
Having worked in the inner city, I have seen the culture that these kids are birthed into. Honestly very few have a fighting chance.

Most of the babies will never know their father, either due to the fact mother has no idea which guy she was banging is the dad or dad is dead or in prison.

My upbringing was perfection compared to what these kids see. They have it engrained in then from an infant that to be successful is to have street cred. There is absolutely no value given to getting an education, being successful or escaping the hood.

We can debate on another thread where this all started IMOJohnson's "war on poverty" and handouts to unmarried mothers, when black men were encouraged not to be in the home. Prior to that, single parent white families were more common than single parent black families.

Until their "at home culture" changes, and what they value as a community makes an abrupt about face, I don't see things getting any better for them.

Cannot count the times I wanted to take some of those kids home with me, before their home life destroyed their potential to become someone that would contribute to society.

I know- personal accountability and all, but I have seen with my own eyes, these kids are beaten down and lose all sense of their potential, beginning in infancy.
Hard to ingrain right from wrong when so many grow up learning wrong is right. Too few are brought up with actual morals and fewer are actually fortunate enough to escape the hood.

Change on this scale is hard. Praying might help. Or not. I swear to God, it’s Armageddon.
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