Recent research indicates that between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will.
It seems strange that women use rape as the basis for their sexual fantasies – and yet so many do. And it’s incredibly important to note that while rape fantasies are common, this does not mean that women secretly want to be raped. There is a huge difference between acted out role-play, imagined scenarios, and real-life experiences. No one asks to be raped, no one deserves to be raped, and how common forced sex fantasies are in no way justifies unwanted sexual contact of any nature.
Rather than lines of consent being crossed by friends or bosses, women fantasize about high drama situations in which they are forced to have sex to survive, entering into sexual contracts rather than having our right to consent taken away from us outright.
A common fantasy is being kidnapped and held hostage, then having one of the guards forcing her into sex to keep her safe. And there are fantasizes about thieves breaking into her house and being so attracted to her they have to have sex with her against her will.
In both scenarios, the women said they start out by resisting advances, then begin to enjoy the sex midway through. It’s giving up the fight and giving in to desire that’s the turn on, rather than the very real trauma of real-life rape. But for other women, fantasies are more true to life. For some it’s not about feigned struggle, but imagining consent and control being ripped away as a major turn on.
https://metro.co.uk/2017/11/29/why-d...raped-7099630/