I'm new to this forum but the reason I'm here is that after more then 10 years on the "other guys place" I gave up. Those type of responses are so common there, when I asked for help finding out about a friend that seems to have disappeared after Jan 2010, they had mostly BS comments, even after I asked they stop it reasoning that something may have happened to the person (he was a member for 9 years). Only one person had a positive response to the thread and he recommended this forum...so here I am...hope you don't mind