DP, I can tell you I have had my finger in more men's asses than I can count, part of the job description.
Prostate stimulation is an actual erogenous zone, and IF you like it does not mean you are ghey ~unless there is a man doing the diddling of the said azzhole.
I personally think azzholes, although necessary anatomy to survive , are disgusting. bleached or not. Ill pass being on the giving or receiving end.