VERY happy married to wife here for 19 years+ and so we met
over some dating group, the very last day of her free membership, she gets this note from me, with return email addy.....
she replies, we exchange notes, lived local enough, so met at what I thought was a normal restaurant.....turns out they changed to Mexican food, she don't like Mexican food......
next date we met for a movie one evening......turns out she don't like movies in the theater.....
we met again for dinner at some joint.......
just over a year later after having tons of fun travelling around, we got married.....
for longer time than the total of the entire relationship times with the first two ex wives......