My MIL has made it perfectly clear no family members would take care of her so she will goto a home. Well she was in a rehab for 6 weeks last year and went off the rails completely. She has a thing about anyone seeing her in any state of being unclothed including her feet even. When left alone for 2 weeks she well... Lost her marbles and has really came back. The next trip will be short as she can't handle it.
The live out of state and I offered to stay with them when the time comes they need help but they have refused up front. I had warned everyone there what would happen as she's unstable/paranoid anyway but they didn't listen and bad shit happened. They had drugged her out of her gourd when I went back to see her.
So help has been offered and refused unfortunately for them. For me I'm low maintenance to begin with so as long as I'm not completely gone upstairs I'll be staying at home.
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