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Forum: Off Topic 08-02-2023, 6:20pm
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Posted By DAB
yeah, one of the books i got said that. i reject...

yeah, one of the books i got said that. i reject that theory.
Forum: Off Topic 08-02-2023, 5:29pm
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Posted By DAB
had a pretty good day. started the day at church...

had a pretty good day. started the day at church with our weekly prayer meeting/bible study 730-900. then followed my friend back to her house to swap out her vent hood. eh, simple 45 min...
Forum: Off Topic 10-14-2022, 1:52pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Just approved of and paid for a marker stone for...

Just approved of and paid for a marker stone for our burial plot. very similar to my parent's marker. will be situated right next to theirs.
Forum: Off Topic 10-12-2022, 10:14am
Replies: 335
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Posted By DAB
eh, may as well spend it and enjoy it.

eh, may as well spend it and enjoy it.
Forum: Off Topic 10-12-2022, 7:56am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Ordered some fancy cherry wood yesterday, enough...

Ordered some fancy cherry wood yesterday, enough to make a very nice box for both our remains.

$335.70 worth of cherry. :slap: :DAB:

No mistakes!!!!
Forum: Off Topic 10-11-2022, 10:40am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
After much thought and prayer, I have decided...

After much thought and prayer, I have decided that our remains will be buried next to my parents remains in Cody, WY, and have selected a plot, fully paid for it, and will get a marker stone designed...
Forum: Off Topic 10-03-2022, 4:04pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
thanks. saw my lawyer today, got all my new...

thanks.

saw my lawyer today, got all my new estate documents completed and signed.

something i had no intention of doing anytime soon until recently.....
Forum: Off Topic 10-02-2022, 11:54am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Indeed "they" are. they have read books, taken...

Indeed "they" are. they have read books, taken exams, written papers, gotten fancy damn degrees, been licensed to give advice.....but until they experience real grief, they are largely useless.
...
Forum: Off Topic 10-02-2022, 11:43am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
It's been 2 months today since Linda passed. ...

It's been 2 months today since Linda passed.

Still miss her everyday.

See my lawyer tomorrow to finalize my new estate documents (sorry, no one here is named as a beneficiary). The vast bulk...
Forum: Off Topic 09-27-2022, 12:38pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Finally went thru the rest of her wallet this AM,...

Finally went thru the rest of her wallet this AM, pulled all the cards and stuff out, clipped all together and set aside (some stuff, like credit cards are still valid). Fished out the last of the...
Forum: Off Topic 09-27-2022, 11:09am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
that's pretty close to what the book explains. ...

that's pretty close to what the book explains.

you are different now. not better, not worse, just different. and that's ok.
Forum: Off Topic 09-27-2022, 9:37am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Perhaps this will help someone down the road: ...

Perhaps this will help someone down the road:

Over the last many weeks, I have ordered and read thru about a dozen books on grief, grieving, loss, and being a widower. In large part, they were...
Forum: Off Topic 09-26-2022, 6:34pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
it's been about 20 days since I last posted in...

it's been about 20 days since I last posted in this thread..... was reminded this past weekend by the calendar that last saturday was 2 months since i took Linda to the ER, and she never came home...
Forum: Off Topic 09-06-2022, 12:14pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
i am happy that this thread has allowed others to...

i am happy that this thread has allowed others to tell their related stories. :grouphug:
Forum: Off Topic 09-05-2022, 12:23pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
one last stupid story: so i'm trying to...

one last stupid story:

so i'm trying to sleep at 5am today, and my phone pings, incoming text message.....ugh, this better be important. look at it. sigh.....it's a text from the funeral home,...
Forum: Off Topic 09-03-2022, 6:18pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
today's chores, which she normally would have...

today's chores, which she normally would have done were watering indoor plants, and some light dusting. i never watered plants, rarely dusted. trying to keep the place looking decent.

we got...
Forum: Off Topic 09-03-2022, 10:58am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
as i'm falling asleep last night, i talked to...

as i'm falling asleep last night, i talked to Linda briefly, but know that there will be no reply. just some things you have to get off your heart.
Forum: Off Topic 09-02-2022, 5:37pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
thanks brother. for now, i like being at our...

thanks brother.

for now, i like being at our home. :DAB:
Forum: Off Topic 09-02-2022, 3:03pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
in her last days, she could barely talk, but she...

in her last days, she could barely talk, but she could hear me fine. so i assured her she's going to love the mansion God has prepared for her in heaven. all decorated, and no dust!!!

Luke...
Forum: Off Topic 09-02-2022, 11:47am
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
and one month later, got her Roth account moved...

and one month later, got her Roth account moved to mine. guess that's good news.

got her gardens watered this morning, tomorrow is indoor watering (every 2 saturdays.).

the cards have stopped,...
Forum: Off Topic 09-01-2022, 2:07pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
well, that was quick. the one time payment...

well, that was quick.

the one time payment of $255 showed up in our account today. wow.

i'll get something good later.
Forum: Off Topic 08-30-2022, 4:00pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Every little bit helps: called SSA last week...

Every little bit helps:

called SSA last week to inquire about the $255 one time death benefit for surviving spouses. well, yes, I'm eligible, they were very, very busy, took my info, and...
Forum: Off Topic 08-30-2022, 1:10pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Well, it's been 4 weeks. Still miss her...

Well, it's been 4 weeks.

Still miss her dearly, every day. (crying as i type this).

got a book yesterday, one useful tidbit i pulled out: you have to take care of yourself first, and grieving...
Forum: Off Topic 08-28-2022, 12:36pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
Was curious this morning, so just figured out we...

Was curious this morning, so just figured out we were married 7,334 days. and they went so quickly.....
Forum: Off Topic 08-26-2022, 8:31pm
Replies: 335
Views: 30,275
Posted By DAB
I do catch myself either doing or not doing...

I do catch myself either doing or not doing things. Doing things that she would approve of or enjoy or expect. Not doing things that she would not like or approve of.

Does it matter if I make the...
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