Filipino pregnant - maybe
 

Filipino girlfriend I have spent some time with for past 10 months that I recently broke up with is claiming she is pregnant with my child. Feel like I am trapped in a soap opera but will see what happens in the near future.

Pregnancy test and DNA tests will be coming.

I know about the BS claims they do to keep their white meat.

Have to vent, non-vette family does not know yet.

Have not decided what to do yet, but will probably be decided based on the results of the DNA tests.

I know, no lecture needed, just another situation where my d*ck might have got me in trouble (another story).

Hope for the best-Plan for the worst. Can't say that we didn't warn you.

I know, I will take responsibility if proven true. I walked away not her so will see what happens. She wan't happy when I broke it off so it could be all BS.

DNA only way to fly :seasix:

I know, I broke it off because she lied to me, small lie but a lie is a lie.

I told her only a DNA test will prove I am the father. If pregnant with my child I will do the right thing for the child and mother.

Is she here or over there?

Assuming she is really pregnant, were you aware that she was not on birth control?

She is still in the PI, we was talking marriage so it isn't a major game changer if she is pregnant. I am in Germany working currently.

I knew, and accepted the risk. Last time we met we was talking about marriage so I was not concerned. Then I found out she lied to me then I dumped her, now this, it could all be all BS to try to keep me bit time will tell.

3 smartest things I ever did: Finished my degree, got a divorce, had a vasectomy.


Not necessarily in that order.

If she is pregnant I am going to me a part of the child's life, if I need to marry the Filipino girl to be with the child I am willing to do that, but I will need proof the child is mine.

I didn't do step 3, yet

I finished my degree, and got a vasectomy.

And I never got married so there was no need for a divorce.

:funny:


Good luck, my friend.

thanks

What was the lie? :popcorns:

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It was some small shit, but as I told her, a lie is a lie and I couldn't trust her, didn't go well after that.

A lot of Filipinos don't know what birth control is.

Many Filipinos only want to be with non-Filipinos.

Neither point affected my decision to go to the Philippines.

Was she mentioned anywhere in your I'm Going To The Philippines thread?

Catholic is the main religion in PI.

I met her on my first of 3 trips to the PI, so yes I probably mentioned some reference about her, she is cool and was making long term plans with her until she lied to me, small lie but a lie is a lie.

So they say but do not really follow.

Many non-married girls there have children.

Chuck, my neighbor friend for some 21 years now, is married to a gal from way south Mindanao?? anyway, he is a average 70 y/o white guy, and he is scared to go there these daze.....islam attacks every white guy they see in that region.....

:issues:

Yeah it is a shitty place to go now as a white dude, they want ransom in the wrong places or they take your head off, "F" that, not going there, most of the time safe but why take a chance. You can buy protection but that is no guarantee. Better to wait to see if that shit gets cleaned up.

I hope that it all works out for you. I know we have talked and it is a crummy situation to be in right now, but this too may be another lie :island14:

Shit, do what the Mexicans are doing. Get her ass over here to have the kid so it can be an automatic citizen.

sounds like a reason to play-it-smart and keep the zipper zipped.

I know, I was ready to commit until I found out about the lie, but as I have told her all she says might be a lie, so I am taken all at face value, sucks that I do not trust her now but that is on her and not me, we are are discussing steps to rebuild the trust.

I have taken advice from this group to heart, thanks to all.

" rebuild the trust"

based on what you have posted, that ship has sunk.

2-1 odds she "loses the baby" prior to the DNA test.

How are you submitting your DNA sample?

Sounds like he may have already "submitted" it :rofl:

Sorry GreenMan...there was a joke there waiting to be grabbed :cert:

They have to have a sample to compare to. Testing the baby does no good without yours to compare to.

I know, I was just making a joke. But I agree with Aero, is there a way that you can submit a sample locally and have the DNA results from her sent tom this side rather than the comparison being done over there?

My main concern is that you can pay off people really easy over there to get your way, depending on what kind of money she has access to, she might be able to buy a positive test results report.

Test the validity and find out if she bought a positive result. Have any friends that can submit the sample she needs? Be damn funny if the results say the sample is a match.

Tell her the joke's on her- you already had a vasectomy years ago.

You'll never hear from her again.

Ditto.

Speaking of....I need to call and schedule my vasectomy

I finished my degree, never been married so I've kept all my stuff and have always kept my fish upstream...:lol:


To Greenman don't make a double mistake and get married. Remember a cheat and a liar will never change.

Start shopping for a six bedroom house. I'm sure she has a large family.:seasix:

This thread delivers...


Hopefully :lol:

...

takes two to tango.

And?

TheGreenMan hopes not!!!

This thread has potential

https://www.23andme.com/

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I just had lunch with a guy whose wife was adopted. They did the DNA thing and she was connected to someone else in the system. The thing is, if that person didn't submit a DNA sample, they would not have been connected.

It's like a class reunion that only you are aware of. There won't be a reunion.

Other participants are all you can be matched with.

If a "small lie" was enough to tank the relationship, just how committed were you? Are you sure you weren't just looking for a way out?

Well, there's that definition of small lie.

:Jeff '79:

from about 4-5 feet distance.
















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Hey there.

My people have been conducting an extensive breeding program in Southeast Asia/Pacific Islands over the last 350 of your Earth years. It's entirely possible that your female Earthling may have been inseminated by one of our DS (Drone Spooge) agents working in that area.

I could check with the home world in the Pleiades System, but it will still be difficult to determine considering how extensive and lengthy our breeding program is. Quite honestly, it's an incredible amount of paperwork.

We might be able to get to the bottom of this if you can ask her the following questions:

"Have you experienced any missing time?"

"Have you experienced any anal pain or rectal bleeding early in the morning?"

"Do you feel any metal fragments underneath your skin, specifically on your head, neck, chest and buttocks area?"

If she answers yes to at least two of these questions, I think we can assume that it was one of our DS agents.

I DO NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITY! I am currently inseminating women of the Planet Kurkowchi on the outskirts of the Trianglum Galaxy. These women have 3 Vaginas and an asshole on their forehead. It's interesting work, but not for everybody!

Thanks and good luck

Don't stand in front of those women after they had beans :wow::willy:

Isn't that the species where the women have both female and
male genitalia ?

There's always Maury....


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Actually yes, interesting that you would know that? Are you a DS agent too?

It's not all of them, however. Only a small percentage of Kurkowchians exhibit hermaphroditic tendencies. I personally have never seen it, as our Collective thoroughly vets adequate insemination victims after the 'Snapper' epidemic of 2906.72, in which several DS agents lost their genitals after a Kurkowchian virus that caused their females to grow vaginal teeth.

The only time I have attempted to inseminate a hermaphrodite was on Earth several hundred years ago, and that was after several Carnelian Ales! :Jeff '79:

She is in the Philippines, been trying to get her here in Germany with me for 90 days so we can spend more time together.

She has doctors appointment for the 27th, she is going to check and send me proof either way. If pregnant I will get the DNA test done.

Yes, we both took some risks

I know it all could be a big lie, she is going to show me proof of everything, I insisted.

She knows how angry I was just from a small lie, any future lies or not telling me will be the end of the relationship.

We have been trying to get her to visit me in Germany, first visa attempt was denied.

Different for me, I am working in Germany right now so I have to get German approval to bring her here. Suppose to be easier to bring her here than the US.

I know but those Filipino girls are very pretty

No, we chatted a long time today. The lie was a small lie, I have proof she lied and she was embarrassed she got caught in a lie as she knows I have a problem with being lied to. Since it was a small lie and she finally admitted to it I am given her another chance.

She knows if any future lie or not telling me something is the end.

I know, I have heard the stories

I found a company that she can go to in the Philippines and I can go to here in Germany, same company so that should work for both of us.

No problem, I can still laugh about it.

I know, they can take the same here in Germany for the comparison

she knows I am able, she made it clear she wants a baby with me but I wanted to wait until we were married first.

Since I dumped her for the small lie I was thinking about getting it done, but maybe a little to late now.

Waiting on the results of the pregnancy test then DNA if needed. It was a small lie but I agree a lie is a lie and I was wondering if there was others I didn't know about. As far as I know she never cheated on me but since she lied to me I cannot be sure.

She doesn't know how but I am monitoring here very closely. Scared her that I knew what she did to the minute, good enough information her entire family got scared of my abilities that all blocked me on facebook.

That is where I am safe, she doesn't have money and her family cannot afford it, don't think they could swing a bribe like that.

Not large for the Philippines. She has one single sister but wants to keep her away from me, afraid of what the sister might try.

To be honest, I am not sure, I am not a trusting person by nature so I was looking for something and thought I was done with her. Yesterday she dropped the possible pregnancy on me and I got really drunk but that didn't help.

I am cooling off so I can see what happens, if not pregnant or not mine I can decide. If my child I will do everything I can to do the right thing, to include marriage to be able to raise the child.

It isn't the potential kids fault to be brought into this world.

I think I responded to most, thanks for the advice now I need to wait and see before taken any action.

Why impose yourself on this poor kid then? Unprotected sex, general mistrust, getting drunk, and having to cool off - is that fair to the child or the mother?

Get some help from a professional or a preacher if the kid turns out to be yours and if not yours get some help anyway. :yesnod:

Or give the sister a call. But Milton's advice is good, too.

If my kid then I will raise it with the kids Mother, just the right thing to do, no issues will be brought up in front of the kid.

I have raised my Sons, they turned out very well so I must have done something right.

I don't need help, I get pissed off and might be a little hotheaded at times but I am good to go, no issues. US Government has trusted me to be stable for many years.

No, the girlfriend is the good looking one, not the sister.

I have my inner circle for advice too. I like this group as you all lay it out as it is and don't hold back, I do appreciate and need that to help me decide.

The decisions and consequences will all be on me.

If I have a child on the way, raising the child will be first priority for me as it was with my now grown Son's with my now ex-wife.

This wouldn't happen if you had hung with the Ladyboys.

Pics of sister? :leaving:

(if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all....)

LOL, that is a fact and they were not obvious when I was there, they tended to over do it was the only reason I was able to pick them out.

Nope, nor the gf, sorry

:leaving:

Hoo boy. A train wreck would have to step it up to be on the same level as the issues in this thread.

Best of luck, bro.

Gonna go out on a limb here and say it.

There is no baby.

She knows you well enough to realize how you would react if you were told there is a baby, and that's why she said it... to make you feel upset, just the same as she was when you broke up with her.

And to the extent she wants you to feel worse, she'll do whatever it takes to string you along with the idea that it's true as long as possible. Faked Positive Pregnancy test results "businesses" exist right here in the US, and I'm certain they abound in the PI too.

Throw in the remote possibility that she actually expected you to marry her before it became transparently obvious that she is not pregnant... and you have her motivations.

In the meantime, don't beat yourself up over this.

What are the odds that she became pregnant at this point in time right now, when it serves her purposes in such a perverse manner?

Occam's razor says it's more likely than not that she made the story up.

So don't worry until you actually know beyond the show of a doubt whether or not she's pregnant.

With your child.

That is what I think to. I have her convinced either way is okay with me and she knows I need proof so I will see what happens.

She made a commit about I will leave her if she isn't pregnant and I might have told her it doesn't matter, but it does.

If she is not pregnant....that would be a second lie and a BIG one at that.

If that is the situation, time to cut the line. :yesnod:

I have made it clear, if she is pregnant DNA testing is next. I am not accepting some bullshit pic of a positive test by someone pissing on a stick, it has to be from a doctor which is easy to forge in the PI also, but DNA testing will be next.

Company I am going to use if needed is international, less likely to forge I am thinking.

She is a good girl, spent time with her and her family, but a lot at stake for her so I need to proceed smartly.

I agree and I decided the same thing, I need to ride this out until the official test on the 27th. She is worried I will leave her if she isn't pregnant, but based on this thread most can figure out what I am going to do if she lies to me again.

Can I ask precisely how you know she is wondering if you will leave if she's not PG?

Did she ask the question, or did she say she is worried?


I think if she is wondering at all that means she is lying.

She asked me, flat out if I will leave her if she isn't pregnant, of course it doesn't matter to me I told her, I need the truth. :dance::dance::dance::dance::dance::dance::dance:


I am not assuming anything at this point. I do like her a lot but another lie will be it, regardless, but I have to have proof of pregnancy/DNA test, she knows.

I'm giving it a 75% chance at this point she's lying.

I was giving it around 60% before you told me that.

Can you have her send the Dna kit to you and then you can send it off for analysis?

Rather than her sending it directly.

I feel the same thing but need to ride it out at this point. As far as she knows it doesn't matter either way.

She can submit locally in the Philippines, they would get her and child's DNA and I can submit here in Germany, I would think this would be safe and it is an international company.

I'd get a paternity lawyer, or a doctor, or someone besides myself determining the most foolproof way of doing this.

At the very least, I'd seek a qualified outside opinion of the reputability of the chosen company.