Why would any man meet with a woman alone?
 

given the current social status, why would any sane man meet with a woman who is not his wife? there is nothing to gain, everything to lose.

alone for 5 minutes to discuss the latest project for Skynet? you tell her she's doing great, suggest a few phone calls to make, think the meeting is over.

a few days/weeks/months/years pass, she decides to make your life hell, finds the meeting notes in her calendar, and poof, she has an exact time and place where you were inappropriate with her briefly.

of course, you deny it, but who will believe a guy now? clean out your desk, you are done. maybe you can stay married.

sad.

just when women started to be invited into the "good old boys club", that door is going to shut fast. sorry ladies, not worth the risk.

I've actually thought about this lately.

Trouble is, anyone can accuse you. Even a man.

I'm just glad my dogs can't talk.:leaving:

a long time ago, i worked with a lady engineer. we went to a few social activities.

would not do that today.

want to talk, let's have lunch in the cafeteria today.

no way i'd be alone with a woman who was not my wife.

even if i did nothing, i'm still out $$$$ defending myself.

I'm cancelling my lunch with Knooger.:yesnod:

nah, you'll be fine. just don't drop anything, or go "bahhhh".

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Anyone can accuse anyone of anything.....then your life is ruined and your out a ton of $ and that's all anyone remembers even if cleared.....:willy:

i've been to a bar precisely 3 times in my life. little dive in GA, where i played pool a few times. didn't have anything to drink.

but....if i was at a bar, sipping my 7-up, and some lady sat by me and cooed "buy me a drink?" "sorry, not tonight"

what is the upside?

If that were to occur, I'd go postal on everyone responsible. Blood would flow.

Seriously, most of my working life, I've worked for small family owned businesses with less than a dozen employees. Mostly men, and usually a few women in the office and sometimes in the shop. I used to tell them the day I was hired I would never agree to be alone in the building with a woman. They would ask "Have you had a problem before?" and I would say no, because that's always been my policy. They knew what I meant and never argued my point. This is nothing new, I've been working under those rules since the 70s.:yesnod:

if Snide were female:














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Happens everyday.....and then you would be in jail.....lose lose

Some things are worth going to jail over.

If someone hurt my kids or wife yes

The problem with all of this is the fact that there is no due process.

It's not even guilty until proven innocent. A man is accused and he is automatically destroyed personally and professionally. Even if they are proven to be innocent, 'oh well'. It's scary.

I have dated women in the past that I know would have no problem destroying me if they got a wild hair up their ass to do so, and I didn't wrong them in any way...they just turned out to be certifiably nuts. :island14:

No way. The ****ing you get is not worth the ****ing you are going to get.

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And during the last elections all of the Democrats made fun of Pence for stating this exact same fact.

:yesnod:

About 20 years ago I remember being spooked after watching the movie "Wild Things"
I've avoided putting myself in certain situations since that day.
Serious.

I'm so compromised I wouldn't run for dogcatcher. However, I take issue that you can hold something over someone's head like the Sword of Damocles.

wondering how many men out there are trying to recall all or some of their 'one night stands', and wondering if any of those women will show up in their future to throw a wrench in their career plans?

This is why the MGTOW sites are out of control with men joining. The horror stories that guys go through are amazing.

???

If the premise is that someone is going to lie to ruin you, what does it matter if you meet with them or not?

You can't prove that a meeting didn't happen any more than you can prove that you didn't do whatever else you are being accused of. :shrug:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way

learn something everyday. :DAB:

Think about it; as teen remember trying to get to "2nd base"?
How about third or a home run?

Here's the real kicker:
When you were turned down at trying to get to 2nd base (unclipping bra IIRC); did you immediately give up, or did you try again?

Did you slow dance at homecoming only have her move your hand up off her butt because it was too low?

When an old joke becomes reality:


A couple went on vacation to a resort up north. The husband liked to fish, and the wife liked to read.

One morning the husband came back from fishing after getting up really early that morning and took a nap.
While he slept, the wife decided to take the boat out. She was not familiar with the lake, so she rowed out and anchored the boat, and started reading her book.


Along comes the Game Warden in his boat, pulls up alongside the woman's boat and asks her what she's doing?

She says, "Reading my book."

The Game Warden tells her she is in a restricted fishing area. She explains that she's not fishing.

To which he replied, "But you have all this equipment. I will have to take you in and write you up!"

Angry that the warden was being so unreasonable, the lady told the warden, "If you do that, I will charge you with rape."

The warden, shocked by her statement, replied, "But I didn't even touch you."

To which the lady replied, "Yeah, but you have all the equipment!"

I found out that on many occasions she will guard her boobs expecting that is where you going to try. Many times I did real good by going direct to touching the "promised land" without making a boob move. Much better if she is wearing a dress Vs pants if you go that route.:D

FWIW, I'm now almost 50 years married so that advice is a bit dated, but might still be valid!

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In those days the guarded boobs may have had a "filler".

Because I don't want any witnesses.

Hope this helps OP.

Dude, I was so clueless to signals when I was a teen that literally the first time I got to any base beyond first was when the girl snuck into my bed in the middle of the night, she was staying overnight with my sisters. She did this on several occasions, each time we'd do a little more. Finally we did the deed. Prior to this happening I had zero idea she even liked me. Very cute girl, 10/10 would do again even though she eventually cheated on me.

in HS and college, women ignored me. :shrug:

Me too. Ain't we lucky?:cert:

Creepy post of the day, right there.:yesnod:

many years ago, i regularly attended a church group for young singles (21-30ish was the target group), and this was in the DC area, and many of the people there worked somewhere for the .gov. many on the Hill for various congress critters.

so i'd meet someone new to me, say hi, and the first question out of their mouth would be "so what do you do?" "i work for an engineering company" "well, it was nice meeting you" and they'd be gone.

i couldn't help them in their career, as i didn't work for a congress critter, and therefore, it wasn't worth their time talking to me.

happened many times.

It matters because if you did meet them there's some small element of truth to the fabricated story. Making something up is risky. You may be easy to easily prove your whereabouts when the alleged 'assault' took place.

That's why it's very interesting that none of the Kavanaugh accusers name a specific date or location. It could be just because it happened so long ago and everyone was too drunk. Hell, I was at high school parties where I couldn't tell you what year it happened.

Or not.

in a few years she can claim that she was groped:

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no, i have no idea who these people are. just that photo proof exists that he touched her bare skin.

:rolleyes:

I was actually talking to my wife about this very thing. Back then, we were just being guys and trying to get some action. I never forced myself on anyone and once someone said no or pushed me off I backed off. Would I be skewered like Judge Kavanaugh nowadays ? Obviously!

I had two different girls that were very forceful with me when I wasn't really looking for action ... but they pressed hard and got their way. Would I come out of the woodwork now and claim abuse by them if they were running for something? NFW!

all these weasels now want more FBI background checks....the same organization that apparently couldn't uncover these accusers in 6 previous tries.

call the vote.

Let's back up to the beginning.

Ms Ford is doing this strictly for political reasons. When she decided to move forward with her allegations, whom did she go forward to with the information?

Not the Police

Not the FBI

She went directly to Democratic Party

Nothing but mudslinging :seeya:

They need to release the names of politicians that have had these kinds of situations that went away because of taxpayer funded settlements.

Ford was so traumatized by this fictitious assault that she cannot fly....well, except for her cross country trip to MD to take a polygraph.....in August, 2018

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Yep, and she stayed in the area. She was not in CA when she gave the excuse!

This was discussed on a FOX show last night. I think it was Ingraham.

well, i called that one last year!

https://nypost.com/2019/05/17/men-ar...-us-all-study/

for many men of means and status, it's just not worth the risk.

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So now they are complaining about the environment they created with broad accusations of what happened years and decades ago.

If the event was that trumatic or demeaning, why wait to report it?

You kicked the door hard and you made it slam shut.

A friend once said something that has stuck with me, "Consequences and repercussions".

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I have always had the policy of never date or mess around with any girl at work.:cert:

I had that policy too, but could never adhere to it.

Hire a woman at your own risk.

Be alone with a woman without witnesses at your own risk.

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Great job feminists. :seasix:

We are going to see this happen more and more. Only the media will spin it as "disgruntled employee" or "fired" when someone walks in and ventilates human resources.