Filipino pregnant - maybe
Filipino girlfriend I have spent some time with for past 10 months that I recently broke up with is claiming she is pregnant with my child. Feel like I am trapped in a soap opera but will see what happens in the near future.
Pregnancy test and DNA tests will be coming. I know about the BS claims they do to keep their white meat. Have to vent, non-vette family does not know yet. Have not decided what to do yet, but will probably be decided based on the results of the DNA tests. I know, no lecture needed, just another situation where my d*ck might have got me in trouble (another story). |
Hope for the best-Plan for the worst. Can't say that we didn't warn you.
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DNA only way to fly :seasix:
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I told her only a DNA test will prove I am the father. If pregnant with my child I will do the right thing for the child and mother. |
Is she here or over there?
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Assuming she is really pregnant, were you aware that she was not on birth control?
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3 smartest things I ever did: Finished my degree, got a divorce, had a vasectomy.
Not necessarily in that order. |
If she is pregnant I am going to me a part of the child's life, if I need to marry the Filipino girl to be with the child I am willing to do that, but I will need proof the child is mine.
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And I never got married so there was no need for a divorce. :funny: Quote:
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What was the lie? :popcorns:
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Many Filipinos only want to be with non-Filipinos. Neither point affected my decision to go to the Philippines. |
Was she mentioned anywhere in your I'm Going To The Philippines thread?
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Many non-married girls there have children. |
Chuck, my neighbor friend for some 21 years now, is married to a gal from way south Mindanao?? anyway, he is a average 70 y/o white guy, and he is scared to go there these daze.....islam attacks every white guy they see in that region.....
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I hope that it all works out for you. I know we have talked and it is a crummy situation to be in right now, but this too may be another lie :island14:
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I have taken advice from this group to heart, thanks to all. |
" rebuild the trust"
based on what you have posted, that ship has sunk. |
2-1 odds she "loses the baby" prior to the DNA test.
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Sorry GreenMan...there was a joke there waiting to be grabbed :cert: |
They have to have a sample to compare to. Testing the baby does no good without yours to compare to.
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My main concern is that you can pay off people really easy over there to get your way, depending on what kind of money she has access to, she might be able to buy a positive test results report. |
Test the validity and find out if she bought a positive result. Have any friends that can submit the sample she needs? Be damn funny if the results say the sample is a match.
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Tell her the joke's on her- you already had a vasectomy years ago.
You'll never hear from her again. |
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Speaking of....I need to call and schedule my vasectomy
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To Greenman don't make a double mistake and get married. Remember a cheat and a liar will never change. |
Start shopping for a six bedroom house. I'm sure she has a large family.:seasix:
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This thread delivers...
Hopefully :lol: |
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This thread has potential
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It's like a class reunion that only you are aware of. There won't be a reunion. Other participants are all you can be matched with. |
If a "small lie" was enough to tank the relationship, just how committed were you? Are you sure you weren't just looking for a way out?
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Hey there.
My people have been conducting an extensive breeding program in Southeast Asia/Pacific Islands over the last 350 of your Earth years. It's entirely possible that your female Earthling may have been inseminated by one of our DS (Drone Spooge) agents working in that area. I could check with the home world in the Pleiades System, but it will still be difficult to determine considering how extensive and lengthy our breeding program is. Quite honestly, it's an incredible amount of paperwork. We might be able to get to the bottom of this if you can ask her the following questions: "Have you experienced any missing time?" "Have you experienced any anal pain or rectal bleeding early in the morning?" "Do you feel any metal fragments underneath your skin, specifically on your head, neck, chest and buttocks area?" If she answers yes to at least two of these questions, I think we can assume that it was one of our DS agents. I DO NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITY! I am currently inseminating women of the Planet Kurkowchi on the outskirts of the Trianglum Galaxy. These women have 3 Vaginas and an asshole on their forehead. It's interesting work, but not for everybody! Thanks and good luck |
Don't stand in front of those women after they had beans :wow::willy:
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male genitalia ? |
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It's not all of them, however. Only a small percentage of Kurkowchians exhibit hermaphroditic tendencies. I personally have never seen it, as our Collective thoroughly vets adequate insemination victims after the 'Snapper' epidemic of 2906.72, in which several DS agents lost their genitals after a Kurkowchian virus that caused their females to grow vaginal teeth. The only time I have attempted to inseminate a hermaphrodite was on Earth several hundred years ago, and that was after several Carnelian Ales! :Jeff '79: |
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She knows how angry I was just from a small lie, any future lies or not telling me will be the end of the relationship. We have been trying to get her to visit me in Germany, first visa attempt was denied. |
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She knows if any future lie or not telling me something is the end. |
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She doesn't know how but I am monitoring here very closely. Scared her that I knew what she did to the minute, good enough information her entire family got scared of my abilities that all blocked me on facebook. |
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I am cooling off so I can see what happens, if not pregnant or not mine I can decide. If my child I will do everything I can to do the right thing, to include marriage to be able to raise the child. It isn't the potential kids fault to be brought into this world. |
I think I responded to most, thanks for the advice now I need to wait and see before taken any action.
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Get some help from a professional or a preacher if the kid turns out to be yours and if not yours get some help anyway. :yesnod: |
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I have raised my Sons, they turned out very well so I must have done something right. I don't need help, I get pissed off and might be a little hotheaded at times but I am good to go, no issues. US Government has trusted me to be stable for many years. |
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I have my inner circle for advice too. I like this group as you all lay it out as it is and don't hold back, I do appreciate and need that to help me decide. The decisions and consequences will all be on me. If I have a child on the way, raising the child will be first priority for me as it was with my now grown Son's with my now ex-wife. |
This wouldn't happen if you had hung with the Ladyboys.
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(if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all....)
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Hoo boy. A train wreck would have to step it up to be on the same level as the issues in this thread.
Best of luck, bro. |
Gonna go out on a limb here and say it.
There is no baby. She knows you well enough to realize how you would react if you were told there is a baby, and that's why she said it... to make you feel upset, just the same as she was when you broke up with her. And to the extent she wants you to feel worse, she'll do whatever it takes to string you along with the idea that it's true as long as possible. Faked Positive Pregnancy test results "businesses" exist right here in the US, and I'm certain they abound in the PI too. Throw in the remote possibility that she actually expected you to marry her before it became transparently obvious that she is not pregnant... and you have her motivations. |
In the meantime, don't beat yourself up over this.
What are the odds that she became pregnant at this point in time right now, when it serves her purposes in such a perverse manner? Occam's razor says it's more likely than not that she made the story up. So don't worry until you actually know beyond the show of a doubt whether or not she's pregnant. With your child. |
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She made a commit about I will leave her if she isn't pregnant and I might have told her it doesn't matter, but it does. |
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If that is the situation, time to cut the line. :yesnod: |
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Company I am going to use if needed is international, less likely to forge I am thinking. She is a good girl, spent time with her and her family, but a lot at stake for her so I need to proceed smartly. |
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Did she ask the question, or did she say she is worried? I think if she is wondering at all that means she is lying. |
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I am not assuming anything at this point. I do like her a lot but another lie will be it, regardless, but I have to have proof of pregnancy/DNA test, she knows. |
I'm giving it a 75% chance at this point she's lying.
I was giving it around 60% before you told me that. |
Can you have her send the Dna kit to you and then you can send it off for analysis?
Rather than her sending it directly. |
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I'd get a paternity lawyer, or a doctor, or someone besides myself determining the most foolproof way of doing this.
At the very least, I'd seek a qualified outside opinion of the reputability of the chosen company. |
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