Wife left me a few weeks ago.. and damn I'm lonely

[island14]

I really just miss my kids for the most.. :(

Way too quiet around here to feel normal.

No the wife has not left me forever... and will be back.

And to explain... Her little sis has hooked up with a foreigner and will be moving to the USA on the 17th of next month.

So while all of the family is very excited for her, and her new life.. but at the same time will miss her very much....

My wife and all of her family want to spend as much time with her while they can before she moves on to this next part of her life.

And so I understand.....

It may be a long time before they see her again.

But for me, besides all of this stuffs that is going on... my whole world is kinda upside down and different..

My wife and kids left several weeks ago now to go to the city to be with her family.

It has been several weeks now that I have not had to tell my son Chico to not pester his sisters for one. :island14:

Have not had to tell Aaliyah not to beat up her little brother Chico either.. :island14:

I have spent most of my time working on my websites to keep myself busy, so explains why I have not been posting here much lately.


Damn it is just way to quiet around here to be normal..


:cert:

[StaticCling]

Drink more Rhum

[island14]

Drink more Rhum

Am on it..

At a dollar a bottle it is bottomless.. :D :datawiz:

:cert:

[Fasglas]

http://dreampunk.me/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/mmmrum.jpg

[island14]

http://dreampunk.me/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/mmmrum.jpg

I am seriously considering making that my new avatar.. :yesnod:


:cert:

[86RAG]

I am seriously considering making that my new avatar.. :yesnod:


:cert:

Do it! :yesnod:

And enjoy the peace and quiet :cert:

[boracayjohnny]

I really just miss my kids for the most.. :(

Way too quiet around here to feel normal.

No the wife has not left me forever... and will be back.

And to explain... Her little sis has hooked up with a foreigner and will be moving to the USA on the 17th of next month.

So while all of the family is very excited for her, and her new life.. but at the same time will miss her very much....

My wife and all of her family want to spend as much time with her while they can before she moves on to this next part of her life.

And so I understand.....

It may be a long time before they see her again.

But for me, besides all of this stuffs that is going on... my whole world is kinda upside down and different..

My wife and kids left several weeks ago now to go to the city to be with her family.

It has been several weeks now that I have not had to tell my son Chico to not pester his sisters for one. :island14:

Have not had to tell Aaliyah not to beat up her little brother Chico either.. :island14:

I have spent most of my time working on my websites to keep myself busy, so explains why I have not been posting here much lately.


Damn it is just way to quiet around here to be normal..


:cert:

Yep, I know this story...very well. The wife has traveled to see her family around the states and back in the P-I. I do enjoy the time alone....for about a day or two and maybe even a week but after that....not so much. Hang in there, Tim. The family will be back together soon.

[island14]

And enjoy the peace and quiet :cert:

While you would think I would?...

I really just miss my NORMAL, and my kids being here with me..


There was a kinda cute 19 year old chic that showed up here the other night I thought would be nice for RED.... :yesnod:

But for me... I just miss my own family...

[island14]

Yep, I know this story...very well. The wife has traveled to see her family around the states and back in the P-I. I do enjoy the time alone....for about a day or two and maybe even a week but after that....not so much. Hang in there, Tim. The family will be back together soon.

After a day or two being single gets old I thinks.. :Jeff '79:


:cert:

[Shrike6]

Oh, boy. Things are heating up now.
Doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to figure out more of the story here...

[island14]

Oh, boy. Things are heating up now.
Doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to figure out more of the story here...

:island14:

[DJ_Critterus]

Lonely? Have you tried hookers and blow?

[boracayjohnny]

Lonely? Have you tried hookers and blow?

It's the P-I, the list of new things to do or be done to is very short.

[island14]

Lonely? Have you tried hookers and blow?


Yup... years ago...


Not for me in the least... and certainly had more than my fill of it in the USA to be sure... :yesnod:

Funny you should mention it though, as when I came over here I made it my number one plan to avoid all bar girls... and bars as much as I could.

But most foreigners want that when they come over here for some reason..

and they can't seem to understand why it does not work out for them in the long run... :island14:

[MrPeabody]

How much weight have you gained? My wife was gone for four days recently. I went on a strict Jim Beam donuts and pizza diet and put on five pounds.:seasix:

[Fasglas]

I am seriously considering making that my new avatar.. :yesnod:


:cert:

:seasix:

[boracayjohnny]

Yup... years ago...


Not for me in the least... and certainly had more than my fill of it in the USA to be sure... :yesnod:

Funny you should mention it though, as when I came over here I made it my number one plan to avoid all bar girls... and bars as much as I could.

But most foreigners want that when they come over here for some reason..

and they can't seem to understand why it does not work out for them in the long run... :island14:

Something I learned long ago....you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl.

[island14]

How much weight have you gained? My wife was gone for four days recently. I went on a strict Jim Beam donuts and pizza diet and put on five pounds.:seasix:

Oh you just had to go there.... :sadangel:

I told our yaya (maid) she did not need to work till my wife gets back, so dependent on my brother in law to cook the rice and dinner.

Not working out so well.... :(


Last few weeks dinners are...

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned sardines

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned beef loaf

rice with canned sardines

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned corned beef

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned sardines

rice with canned corned beef

rice with canned corned beef

rice with canned tuna

Come on over for the best canned foods dinners ever anytime... :hurray:


:cert:

[Nemesis]

oh hey Tim!

[boracayjohnny]

Oh you just had to go there.... :sadangel:

I told our yaya (maid) she did not need to work till my wife gets back, so dependent on my brother in law to cook the rice and dinner.

Not working out so well.... :(


Last few weeks dinners are...

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned sardines

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned beef loaf

rice with canned sardines

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned corned beef

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned tuna

rice with canned sardines

rice with canned corned beef

rice with canned corned beef

rice with canned tuna

Come on over for the best canned foods dinners ever anytime... :hurray:


:cert:

Time to get yaya cookin'. :seasix::cert:

[VITE1]

Good luck Tim. The Rhum will dull your senses. Get out for a long walk to someones house that can cook.

[Stangkiller]

Oh, boy. Things are heating up now.
Doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to figure out more of the story here...

:rofl: my same thought

Those damn foreigners stealing up all the damn women

[Skia]

Sister in law moving in with Dixie?

[Bill]

Island14 is gonna be ballin' now that there will be another revenue source going to the family each month. My business partner married a Philipina. She sent all the money she could get her hands on to mama san. She totaled her car and sent most of the insurance payout to the PI.

Tim's gonna be rich!

[OddBall]

There's always Renren to keep you company.

[86RAG]

While you would think I would?...

I really just miss my NORMAL, and my kids being here with me..


There was a kinda cute 19 year old chic that showed up here the other night I thought would be nice for RED.... :yesnod:

But for me... I just miss my own family...

Just busting your chops. My wife and youngest daughter take off a couple times a year to visit my oldest daughter in college, and I miss them when they're gone too. :yesnod:

[86RAG]

There's always Renren to keep you company.

:rofl:

[MrPeabody]

Yer Blues - The Beatles - YouTube

[Milton Fox]

Cant you call and order a pizza? :island14:

[Bill]

If I was island14, I'd use my Smart cell phone to call Jolibee for a delivery order.

['77Babe]

Oh, boy. Things are heating up now.
Doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to figure out more of the story here...

Sherlock Holmes may be wrong, but it seems to be falling into place. :)

[RED-85-Z51]

Umm..invite RenRen over...open some rhum and let one thing lead to another?

[Bill]

There's always Renren to keep you company.

Umm..invite RenRen over...open some rhum and let one thing lead to another?

Let's all hope it doesn't come to that. Stay strong, Tim.....stay strong. If it will help, I can send a few old Playboys and Maxims to Tim, so he can keep busy reading the articles.

[Rob]

Oh, boy. Things are heating up now.
Doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to figure out more of the story here...

You got that right. :cert:

:rofl: my same thought

Those damn foreigners stealing up all the damn women

LOL :afrocool:

Sister in law moving in with Dixie?

:yesnod: sister-in-law +1 actually


Sherlock Holmes may be wrong, but it seems to be falling into place. :)


You know what. It has taken a long time but it has been worth it. I will not only have a new girlfriend but also a little boy to help raise. I am so excited about having the both of them here. The visa application process is not for the faint of heart. It takes a lot of time and patience to deal with two different countries government agencies and the crazy things they want as part of that process.

But it is done and I am happy to start the next steps with my new family.

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy150/mtjulietdba/IMG_3965_zpsivsbfscb.jpg

[LATB]

Exciting time for you Rob. Prayers for your family. :angel:

[Bill]

I hope it works out well for you, Dixie. Good luck.

[boracayjohnny]

You got that right. :cert:



LOL :afrocool:



:yesnod: sister-in-law +1 actually





You know what. It has taken a long time but it has been worth it. I will not only have a new girlfriend but also a little boy to help raise. I am so excited about having the both of them here. The visa application process is not for the faint of heart. It takes a lot of time and patience to deal with two different countries government agencies and the crazy things they want as part of that process.

But it is done and I am happy to start the next steps with my new family.

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy150/mtjulietdba/IMG_3965_zpsivsbfscb.jpg

Good on ya, Rob and now, family. The visa application is something else, I don't know what but something else. :D

And don't even get me started on the US Citizenship process. We followed the process, I might add exactly legal and to the "T", and it's comical at times. Fill out paperwork, pay a fee, and wait. Fill out the same paperwork again, pay another fee, and wait again. Go see dude/dudette who can put eyes on the two of you, ask a few questions, stamp, sign, stamp, sign..all at the same time, it was sorta cartoonish. Wait. Mail comes and notifies the bride she has a citizenship test. Take test. Wait. Mail comes and notifies the bride she will be part of the melting pot. Bride gets citizenship while I'm deployed to yet another godforsaken place and I get pics. Hey, she got the blue passport privilege, right?

This is the Readers Digest version of ~5 years of diligence and following the rules. Meh, I shoulda bought her a ticket to Mexico and had her walk across. Then, she woulda got an express line to the front and all kinds of benefits while waiting. You know, potential Democratic voter and all. :D

[island14]

Tim's gonna be rich!

Years ago I introduced a foreigner to a girl after her Mom had asked me to help find her one..

The Mom and Dad was so happy....... they gave me two chickens.. :Jeff '79:


Ol'e Rob is a pretty good dude..

And we are all very happy to welcome him to the family.

:cert:

[island14]

Good luck Tim. The Rhum will dull your senses. Get out for a long walk to someones house that can cook.


:iagree:

The Rhum will certainly dull my senses... :yesnod:

I guess when I came home drunk last night and made this thread I didn't think all of the Sherlocks here would do the math... and put this story together.

Guess I kinda let the cat outta the bag huh? :island14:

Sorry Rob.... Soon was going to come out soon anyways.. :Jeff '79:

:cert:

[island14]

There's always Renren to keep you company.

Heck even that hunk of love is going to the party in the city when Rob gets back in a few weeks.. :Jeff '79:


Umm..invite RenRen over...open some rhum and let one thing lead to another?

She was so full of questions about you not long ago when she heard you were single... :rofl:

Had her really going for awhile, but finally had to break the news to her that while I was not 100% sure, I was going to guess you probably preferred biologically correct girls.


:lol:


Poor thang was heart broke.. :(

[island14]

Cant you call and order a pizza? :island14:


If I was island14, I'd use my Smart cell phone to call Jolibee for a delivery order.

Yeah right... :lol:



But I did hear they are planning to open a Jolibee's here on our island this year or next..

[Rob]

Yeah right... :lol:



But I did hear they are planning to open a Jolibee's here on our island this year or next..

Can you imagine???? That place would be a mad house - and I would be right in the thick of it with a box of chicken and a hand full of spaghetti while smiling from ear to ear.

I wont forget last time I was there we stopped at Jollibee for some food while driving to Hagnaya and JC ate a ton of spaghetti while we were driving (he was in my lap). About an hour into the drive he looked at me and then looked at his mama and then puked all over my legs and my backpack. I happened to be videoing at the time and caught it all on video, not the puking, but you could hear everyone all frantic all of a sudden. then you see my leg covered in noodles. It did suck at the time - but luckily we had a ton of tissues and I had an extra shirt that we just used to clean everything up and never had to pull over. :rofl: That was the longest trip up there I ever took, we drove through like 4 Sinulog festivals that day and it took us like 5 hours instead of 2.5 like it normally is.

[LATB]

Good on ya, Rob and now, family. The visa application is something else, I don't know what but something else. :D

And don't even get me started on the US Citizenship process. We followed the process, I might add exactly legal and to the "T", and it's comical at times. Fill out paperwork, pay a fee, and wait. Fill out the same paperwork again, pay another fee, and wait again. Go see dude/dudette who can put eyes on the two of you, ask a few questions, stamp, sign, stamp, sign..all at the same time, it was sorta cartoonish. Wait. Mail comes and notifies the bride she has a citizenship test. Take test. Wait. Mail comes and notifies the bride she will be part of the melting pot. Bride gets citizenship while I'm deployed to yet another godforsaken place and I get pics. Hey, she got the blue passport privilege, right?

This is the Readers Digest version of ~5 years of diligence and following the rules. Meh, I shoulda bought her a ticket to Mexico and had her walk across. Then, she woulda got an express line to the front and all kinds of benefits while waiting. You know, potential Democratic voter and all. :D

We have British friends...it took the couple nearly 10 years to become citizens.

My friend Al (the Brit) says: "If I was shorter...had darker skin...and better teeth...I'd been better off coming in through Tijuana" :Jeff '79:

[86RAG]

my new family.

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy150/mtjulietdba/IMG_3965_zpsivsbfscb.jpg

Beautiful looking family right there! :yesnod: :cert:

[Nemesis]

Had no idea any of this was going on. I thought you just really liked partying on the beach! Congrats Rob, hope everything goes well; the move, the paperwork, and beyond!

['77Babe]

You got that right. :cert:



LOL :afrocool:



:yesnod: sister-in-law +1 actually





You know what. It has taken a long time but it has been worth it. I will not only have a new girlfriend but also a little boy to help raise. I am so excited about having the both of them here. The visa application process is not for the faint of heart. It takes a lot of time and patience to deal with two different countries government agencies and the crazy things they want as part of that process.

But it is done and I am happy to start the next steps with my new family.

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy150/mtjulietdba/IMG_3965_zpsivsbfscb.jpg

I didn't realize you were going to be a dad too. :seasix:
Does she cook? You might need to get her her own kitchen. :lol:

I wish you guys all the best!:cert:

[VITE1]

Congratulations Rob. :seasix::shots:

[Sea Six]

Congrats Rob!

I was wondering when you'd come out with the news. :cert:

[VatorMan]

Rob just THINKS he will have 2 new family members. I'll say he will have a house full by the end of the year. :funnier: Watch out for the cousins, Aunts and Uncles that will come for prolonged stays-like 10-20 years.

[boracayjohnny]

Rob just THINKS he will have 2 new family members. I'll say he will have a house full by the end of the year. :funnier: Watch out for the cousins, Aunts and Uncles that will come for prolonged stays-like 10-20 years.

:rofl::lol: Truth, I've seen it happen.

When you marry a Filipina, you marry the family too. Ask me how I know. :D

I'm all for helping but one can set boundaries. :seasix:

[Shrike6]

Rob just THINKS he will have 2 new family members. I'll say he will have a house full by the end of the year. :funnier: Watch out for the cousins, Aunts and Uncles that will come for prolonged stays-like 10-20 years.

That's what I've heard, too. Rob may need to get that acerage to build some huts on for the overflow.:rofl:

[Rob]

That's what I've heard, too. Rob may need to get that acerage to build some huts on for the overflow.:rofl:

I have already warned my pastor that in a few years he might be the leader of the biggest Filipino Baptist church in Middle Tennessee :rofl:

He just laughs because even he has done some mission work over there and is well aware of the culture.

My personal family as well as my church family is very excited about the new changes in my life. Heck, I have one of the most kick butt Spider-man looking bedrooms in my house now as well as some hot wheel tracks and even put in a basketball goal for a few games of horse with my buddy.

[island14]

Rob just THINKS he will have 2 new family members. I'll say he will have a house full by the end of the year. :funnier: Watch out for the cousins, Aunts and Uncles that will come for prolonged stays-like 10-20 years.

Go easy on him there Tom.. Lets not scare him off just yet.. :Jeff '79:

:rofl::lol: Truth, I've seen it happen.

When you marry a Filipina, you marry the family too. Ask me how I know. :D

I'm all for helping but one can set boundaries. :seasix:


So true...... :rofl:

I always have some family members staying here with us, and when they come it is usually for years.. :yesnod: :Jeff '79:

Right now for the past year or so we just have one other sister staying with us and a brother..

That's not too bad really. it use to be 3 sisters and three brothers staying with us, and sometimes the Mom, or sometimes the Dad.


One time the Dad came to visit us in December, and I asked him how long he planned to stay.

He replied.. "June" :rofl:

For some reason I really don't mind and have adapted over the years..

I have started building them their own house here on our lot and hope to get it finished for them one of these days.

[island14]

That's what I've heard, too. Rob may need to get that acerage to build some huts on for the overflow.:rofl:

I got that covered.. :seasix:

to the left side of our house along the fence line is room for a whole row of two story squatter shacks.. :Jeff '79:

[island14]

I have already warned my pastor that in a few years he might be the leader of the biggest Filipino Baptist church in Middle Tennessee :rofl:

He just laughs because even he has done some mission work over there and is well aware of the culture.

My personal family as well as my church family is very excited about the new changes in my life. Heck, I have one of the most kick butt Spider-man looking bedrooms in my house now as well as some hot wheel tracks and even put in a basketball goal for a few games of horse with my buddy.

It is easy to tell you are excited about having your own kid around to play with. :yesnod:

Heck you are allready getting his room all decked out with cool stuffs and toys.

I really enjoy the time I spend with my boys, usually we go swimming together almost every day.



Some pics Rob has sent me recently.

http://freeshopmanual.com/uploads/photos/JC-2.jpg

http://freeshopmanual.com/uploads/photos/JC-3.jpg

http://freeshopmanual.com/uploads/photos/JC-4.jpg

http://freeshopmanual.com/uploads/photos/JC-5.jpg

http://freeshopmanual.com/uploads/photos/JC-6.jpg

[...Whitepower...]

Congrats and best of luck Rob. 👍🏾

[Stangkiller]

Awesome Rob! Congrats and best of luck to you and your new family!!

[...Whitepower...]

How old is he rob?

[Rob]

How old is he rob?

Currently two but will be three in two weeks

[Skia]

Happy for you Rob. :seasix: Can't wait for new pics from the "blue chair".

[Rob]

Happy for you Rob. :seasix: Can't wait for new pics from the "blue chair".

Blue Stool

[Skia]

Blue Stool
I knew that
:leaving:
Must be because of vodka and seltzer.

[Blademaker]

God bless you and yours, Rob.
Anything I can do, let me know.

Laudum Dios..........

[simpleman68]

Glad to hear the formal announcement Rob!! Good stuff man, really good stuff. :angel:
Scott

[JRD77VET]

Congrats Rob :toast:

[Rob]

Thank you all. It is an exciting new time for me.

[...Whitepower...]

Currently two but will be three in two weeks

Missed the diapers.. Nice timing. :lol:

[OddBall]

Congratulations Rob!!!! :cert:

She's hawt!

Can she cook bacon?

[island14]

Can she cook bacon?


She probably can.. but why muck about when her dad can cook the whole pig. :D

[Rob]

Congratulations Rob!!!! :cert: Can she cook bacon?

Thank you. She will learn both ways

[island14]

:hurray: :hurray: :hurray: :hurray: :hurray:


http://freeshopmanual.com/uploads/photos/JC-1.png

[island14]

Congratulations Rob!!!! :cert:

She's hawt!

Can she cook bacon?

Thank you. She will learn both ways

So we can expect lots of little baconators running around? :island14:


:waiting:

[Ms.Gem]

Wow! Congrats Rob. Lots of luck everything goes nice and smoothly.

[Rob]

Wow! Congrats Rob. Lots of luck everything goes nice and smoothly.

Thank you. I am very excited.

[Grey Ghost]

:hurray:

[Cybercowboy]

:cheers:

[Mirroredshades]

:cheers:

This

[NeedSpeed]

Ya know, most threads go different directions around here, but this takes the cake :lol:

Damn, congrats :cheers:

[Bill]

Blue Stool

You should probably see a doctor about that.

[Iron Chef]

Had no idea any of this was going on. I thought you just really liked partying on the beach! Congrats Rob, hope everything goes well; the move, the paperwork, and beyond!

Same here...I'm just out of most people's loop (and a little dense)! :D

Congrats Rob. Hope you made 'em some smack by now. :cert:

[Norm]

All the best, you look happy. :seasix::cert::USA:

[boracayjohnny]

What a great thread about Rob and family. I just read all it again. :seasix::cool:

[island14]

Same here...I'm just out of most people's loop (and a little dense)! :D

Congrats Rob. Hope you made 'em some smack by now. :cert:

He did.. I forget the thread as it was over a year ago, but that was some great stuffs, and he had to improvise as all of the materials were not available here..

:cert:

I ended up eating most of it I think.. :lol:

Damnn that was GOOD! :yesnod: