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Millenium Vette
09-11-2013, 9:06am
Walter E. Williams (http://townhall.com/columnists/walterewilliams/2013/09/11/you-dont-have-to-stay-poor-n1695135/page/full)


No one can blame you if you start out in life poor, because how you start is not your fault. If you stay poor, you're to blame because it is your fault. Nowhere has this been made clearer than in Dennis Kimbro's new book, "The Wealth Choice: Success Secrets of Black Millionaires."
Kimbro, a business professor at Clark Atlanta University, conducted extensive face-to-face interviews, took surveys and had other interactions with nearly 1,000 of America's black financial elite, many of whom are multimillionaires, to discover the secret of their success. Kimbro's seven-year study included wealthy blacks such as Byron E. Lewis, Tyler Perry, Daymond John, Bob Johnson, Cathy Hughes and Antonio Reed. Kimbro says that many of today's black multimillionaires started out poor or worse. So what were their strategies?

"The Wealth Choice" argues that wealth (millionaireship) is not a function of circumstance, luck, environment or the cards you were dealt. Instead, wealth is the result of a conscious choice, action, faith, innovation, effort, preparation and discipline. Or, in the words of billionaire W. Clement Stone, founder of Combined Insurance, whom Kimbro met with and mentions early in the book, "Try, try, try, and keep on trying is the rule that must be followed to become an expert in anything." He also said, "If you cannot save money, the seeds of greatness are not in you." Saving is necessary for investment and wealth accumulation. Therein lies much of the problem for many black Americans.

Kimbro gives us some statistics to highlight some of the problem. The median net worth, or wealth, of white households is 20 times that of black households. In 2009, 35 percent of black households had no wealth or were in debt. Twenty-four percent of black Americans spend more than they earn, compared with 14 percent of all Americans. Thirty-two percent of blacks do not save at all, compared with less than 25 percent of all Americans. To underscore these statistics, Earl Graves Jr., CEO of Black Enterprise magazine, said that blacks are six times as likely as whites to purchase a Mercedes-Benz and that blacks who purchase Jaguars have an income one-third less than whites who purchase the same vehicles.

Some, but not all, of the explanation for the wealth differences between blacks and whites has to do with inheritances. Slavery, poverty and gross discrimination didn't create the conditions for inheritances. But slavery and gross discrimination cannot explain today's lack of saving and investing. Nobody's saying that marshaling the resources for wealth is easy. Gaining wealth is a challenge, as singer Ray Charles lamented in his hit song "Them That Got": "That old saying 'them that's got are them that gets' is something I can't see. If you gotta have something before you can get something, how do you get your first is still a mystery to me." But as John Harold Johnson, who rose above abject poverty and racial discrimination to build a publishing empire, said, "if you want to know how people feel about themselves, look at their bank account. ... Wealth is less a matter of circumstance than it is a matter of knowledge and choice."

"The Wealth Choice" suggests several disciplines that can be only summarized here. Among them are: Be passionate, and focus on unique strengths; develop clear, delineated goals. Then develop strong work ethic. Recognize the power of ideas, and never consider the possibility of failure. Be thrifty and frugal in nature. My stepfather put Kimbro's list of self-disciplines in another way. He said: If you want to be successful at anything, you have to come early and stay late.

When Dr. Kimbro graciously sent me a copy of "The Wealth Choice," he included an 18-minute video, titled "In Conversation with Dr. Dennis Kimbro." On top of putting together an excellent book, he reveals himself as an excellent motivational speaker who should be speaking to young people regardless of race.

DAB
09-11-2013, 9:52am
life is full of choices, and you bear the consequences of those choices. choose wisely.

onedef92
09-11-2013, 9:56am
And remember; invest, save or spend, you still can't take it with you. Don't forget to invest in eternity, the most important decision of all.

VITE1
09-11-2013, 10:22am
Growing up I saw this all around me. My Next door neighbor had been a servants son on a nearby estate. His father passed away when he was 8 and he and his brothers had to take up the slack. He retired as a VP of one of the biggest defense contractors in the USA.

My Mother and Father grew up dirt poor in the South Bronx. After Dad spent two decade doing bad things to bad people around the world for the USMC he worked hard and climbed the ladder to a Executive position with NY Life.

Dozens of other stories of people working hard saving a lot and spending smart.

Millenium Vette
09-11-2013, 11:17am
I just downloaded the Kindle version of Dr. Kimbro's book mentioned in the column. Wisdom has no color.

:cert:

onedef92
09-11-2013, 11:25am
I just downloaded the Kindle version of Dr. Kimbro's book mentioned in the column. Wisdom has no color.

:cert:

Was just reading about wisdom yesterday from The Good Book. Proverbs has much to say about it.


Proverbs 8-9

New International Version (NIV)


Wisdom’s Call


8 Does not wisdom call out?
Does not understanding raise her voice?
2 At the highest point along the way,
where the paths meet, she takes her stand;
3 beside the gate leading into the city,
at the entrance, she cries aloud:
4 “To you, O people, I call out;
I raise my voice to all mankind.
5 You who are simple, gain prudence;
you who are foolish, set your hearts on it.[a]
6 Listen, for I have trustworthy things to say;
I open my lips to speak what is right.
7 My mouth speaks what is true,
for my lips detest wickedness.
8 All the words of my mouth are just;
none of them is crooked or perverse.
9 To the discerning all of them are right;
they are upright to those who have found knowledge.
10 Choose my instruction instead of silver,
knowledge rather than choice gold,
11 for wisdom is more precious than rubies,
and nothing you desire can compare with her.


12 “I, wisdom, dwell together with prudence;
I possess knowledge and discretion.
13 To fear the Lord is to hate evil;
I hate pride and arrogance,
evil behavior and perverse speech.
14 Counsel and sound judgment are mine;
I have insight, I have power.
15 By me kings reign
and rulers issue decrees that are just;
16 by me princes govern,
and nobles—all who rule on earth.[b]
17 I love those who love me,
and those who seek me find me.
18 With me are riches and honor,
enduring wealth and prosperity.
19 My fruit is better than fine gold;
what I yield surpasses choice silver.
20 I walk in the way of righteousness,
along the paths of justice,
21 bestowing a rich inheritance on those who love me
and making their treasuries full.


22 “The Lord brought me forth as the first of his works,[c][d]
before his deeds of old;
23 I was formed long ages ago,
at the very beginning, when the world came to be.
24 When there were no watery depths, I was given birth,
when there were no springs overflowing with water;
25 before the mountains were settled in place,
before the hills, I was given birth,
26 before he made the world or its fields
or any of the dust of the earth.
27 I was there when he set the heavens in place,
when he marked out the horizon on the face of the deep,
28 when he established the clouds above
and fixed securely the fountains of the deep,
29 when he gave the sea its boundary
so the waters would not overstep his command,
and when he marked out the foundations of the earth.
30 Then I was constantly[e] at his side.
I was filled with delight day after day,
rejoicing always in his presence,
31 rejoicing in his whole world
and delighting in mankind.


32 “Now then, my children, listen to me;
blessed are those who keep my ways.
33 Listen to my instruction and be wise;
do not disregard it.
34 Blessed are those who listen to me,
watching daily at my doors,
waiting at my doorway.
35 For those who find me find life
and receive favor from the Lord.
36 But those who fail to find me harm themselves;
all who hate me love death.”


Also, my men's Bible study class is focusing on Dave Ramsey's The Total Money Makeover this month. Very good advice and wealth-management tips in there, too.

DAB
09-11-2013, 12:13pm
15 Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

2 Timothy 2:15

Aerovette
09-11-2013, 12:26pm
My parents had poor spending and saving habits and I had and have no real template to follow. I have tried but there is a phenomenon in my life that, as silly as it seems, has historically proven true WITHOUT exception.

If I set aside $500.00, I will encounter a $600.00 problem. If I set aside $2000.00, I will encounter a $2500.00 problem. I have reached the point of giving up multiple times because of this, but I go right back to trying again...and the phenomenon repeats. I have accepted it as "my life" and I carry on accordingly. Getting and giving and watching time tick by. It is discouraging and depressing.

DAB
09-11-2013, 12:48pm
people in general are loath to discuss their personal finances, and thus it is hard to ask others "how do you do it?".

about 6 years ago, we took a long driving trip out west, including visiting Santa Fe for a week, and also looping thru Devil's Tower in WY and Rushmore and Badlands on the way home. as we pulled into the parking lot at Devil's Tower in my 98 coupe, i hear a girl (sorry Bart, no pix) a few cars over remark "nice car".

so i wander over and she is telling her mom that she'd like to have a Corvette some day. i ask her if she'd like to have a Corvette some day. oh yes.

i offered the following:

stay in school, go to college, get a job, save money for about 15 years, and you too can buy one for cash.

her face about fell to the asphalt, but behind her mom was smiling, with a 'told you so' look.

when i got out of college, i had no $$, many thousands in loan debt, and a good job. that was 1985. today, i work if i want to, and have done such for the last 4 years. you do the math. spend less than you earn, no one cares about your money as much as you.

:DAB:

Doug28450
09-11-2013, 12:53pm
If I set aside $500.00, I will encounter a $600.00 problem. If I set aside $2000.00, I will encounter a $2500.00 problem. I have reached the point of giving up multiple times because of this, but I go right back to trying again...and the phenomenon repeats. I have accepted it as "my life" and I carry on accordingly. Getting and giving and watching time tick by. It is discouraging and depressing.

I feel your pain. I've been down that path and on occasion I find myself there again. My wife and I are a good compliment for each other. I can't do day to day expenses and she is a wiz at it. She can't do the long term retirement type investing and I am good at it.

Aerovette
09-11-2013, 12:53pm
people in general are loath to discuss their personal finances, and thus it is hard to ask others "how do you do it?".

about 6 years ago, we took a long driving trip out west, including visiting Santa Fe for a week, and also looping thru Devil's Tower in WY and Rushmore and Badlands on the way home. as we pulled into the parking lot at Devil's Tower in my 98 coupe, i hear a girl (sorry Bart, no pix) a few cars over remark "nice car".

so i wander over and she is telling her mom that she'd like to have a Corvette some day. i ask her if she'd like to have a Corvette some day. oh yes.

i offered the following:

stay in school, go to college, get a job, save money for about 15 years, and you too can buy one for cash. her face about fell to the asphalt, but behind her mom was smiling, with a 'told you so' look.

when i got out of college, i had no $$, many thousands in loan debt, and a good job. that was 1985. today, i work if i want to, and have done such for the last 4 years. you do the math. spend less than you earn, no one cares about your money as much as you.

:DAB:

Ahhh, so you're saying she was not attractive.

For attractive girls:

Go to school, meet a rich guy, marry him if you have to, or just get him to buy you expensive things. :D

DAB
09-11-2013, 12:55pm
Ahhh, so you're saying she was not attractive.

For attractive girls:

Go to school, meet a rich guy, marry him if you have to, or just get him to buy you expensive things. :D

:skep:

i suspect that would have been mom's plan H.

Olustee bus
09-11-2013, 1:04pm
Well, I started out with nothing and I still have pretty much all of that left.

Scissors
09-11-2013, 1:57pm
While anyone can become rich, it's impossible for everyone to stop being poor. That is, unless sufficient automation of labor takes place.

Zidane
09-11-2013, 2:07pm
spend less than you earn

:DAB:

BINGO!:seasix:

VITE1
09-11-2013, 3:33pm
While anyone can become rich, it's impossible for everyone to stop being poor. That is, unless sufficient automation of labor takes place.

Even then there will be large groups of poor people simply because there are people who will always do the wrong things at the right times.

Loco Vette
09-11-2013, 3:59pm
That is, unless sufficient automation of labor takes place.

Curious about this statement. Wouldn't that cost low-skilled jobs, therefore more poor?

Bill
09-11-2013, 5:25pm
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onedef92
09-12-2013, 9:34am
Bottom line, everyone's NOT gonna' come up. We won't see global prosperity and 100% abolition of poverty until Jesus firmly establishes his Millenial Reign.

"The poor you will always have with you, and you can help them any time you want."- Matthew 14:7

But there's wayyyyy too many mofo's out there bleeding the beast and sucking the gub'ment teat, too.