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Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 10:57am
I have this girlfriend that I know is using me. She is all into me for a couple of weeks and then she vanishes for a couple of months. Then, out of the blue, she starts coming around again. Ordinarily I wouldn't put up with this type of crap but the sex is pretty good.

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http://www.cheatengine.org/forum/files/cute-brunette-in-a-basic-black-lace-bra_132.jpg

NeedSpeed
04-20-2012, 10:59am
Keep Her. Keep Looking. :D

Chuck A
04-20-2012, 11:01am
If that is really her and the sex is good, defenitely keep her
very sexy, indeed

BADRACR1
04-20-2012, 11:27am
I fail to see a problem.:kick:

NeedSpeed
04-20-2012, 11:29am
FYI I highly doubt you're an f buddy with Alina Văcariu. :D

https://www.google.com/images?sourceid=mozclient&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&q=Alina+V%C4%83cariu&biw=1418&bih=866&sei=yoiRT5jTOeOh2QWp-5mVBQ

Maybe every so often he rubs one out to her?

:D

kingpin
04-20-2012, 11:29am
This thread proves your :fruit:
Sex with no other responsibilities and you are questioning this.
WTF is the matter with you?

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 11:34am
Sex with no other responsibilities and you are questioning this.
WTF is the matter with you?



Well, if she would at least take me out to dinner once in a while I wouldn't feel so cheap.

:fingertap:

NB2K
04-20-2012, 11:44am
The perfect GF, IMHO.

If they come around more often than that, the wife gets suspicious.

Burro (He/Haw)
04-20-2012, 11:45am
Don't be swayed by her looks. WGAF. There are a million hot chicks around. Why can't you play the same game she is? Time for YOU to start calling the shots. She wants to hook up? Fuk her. You're busy that night.

jda67gta
04-20-2012, 12:11pm
Thanks for the pie option.....

Meeko87
04-20-2012, 12:22pm
Your pretty ugly, slow, and lack a personality so I say take what you can get.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 12:38pm
Your pretty ugly, slow, and lack a personality so I say take what you can get.


Well. This.

Plus I have my kids about 6 days a week. With only one day a week off, I don't really have time to play hard to get.

:D

NB2K
04-20-2012, 12:42pm
Well. This.

Plus I have my kids about 6 days a week. With only one day a week off, I don't really have time to play hard to get.

:D

So you need convenience? So when she does show up she's ready? Perfect.:seasix:

Also remember, eager beats pretty every time.

snide
04-20-2012, 1:03pm
This thread proves your :fruit:
Sex with no other responsibilities and you are questioning this.
WTF is the matter with you?

*you're

If my post hurt your feelings, go hide behind your mommy's skirt.

:cert:

Chuck A
04-20-2012, 1:05pm
She looks a little thin in the rear

NEED-A-VETTE
04-20-2012, 1:48pm
She hangs out for a few WEEKS and then disappears for a few MONTHS?

Stop calling her your GF because, I got news for ya...you ain't her BF. :rofl:

If you're not yet seeing anyone else exclusively, what exactly is your issue with having good sex when she's around?

kingpin
04-20-2012, 1:51pm
She hangs out for a few WEEKS and then disappears for a few MONTHS?

Stop calling her your GF because, I got news for ya...you ain't her BF. :rofl:

If you're not yet seeing anyone else exclusively, what exactly is your issue with having good sex when she's around?

Some of the guys here think if they are not calling the shots then it's not worth it.
At least according to Mirrors old thread on something similar.

ApexOversteer
04-20-2012, 1:52pm
Maybe every so often he rubs one out to her?

:D

I fap to images of several women daily and never once have I referred to one as "my girlfriend", because they're sluts.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 2:33pm
Stop calling her your GF because, I got news for ya...you ain't her BF. :rofl:

If you're not yet seeing anyone else exclusively, what exactly is your issue with having good sex when she's around?

LoL. Well, the whole charade is what annoys me. Why act all gf-bf and then generate some drama as an excuse not to talk for a couple of months.

:needcoffee:



At least according to Mirrors old thread on something similar.

Ironically, that chick called me this week to see if I would help her move out of her 3rd floor appt tomorrow......... NFW honey.

:kimblair:

MrPeabody
04-20-2012, 2:33pm
Set her up with Joebuck.

NEED-A-VETTE
04-20-2012, 2:42pm
LoL. Well, the whole charade is what annoys me. Why act all gf-bf and then generate some drama as an excuse not to talk for a couple of months.

:needcoffee:

Why are either of you trying to pretend like its more than what it is? When she starts up drama just be like, "If you need to split for awhile, that's cool. It's not like we're in a relationship."

Easy.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 2:43pm
Set her up with Joebuck.


Well, even she has standards.

:lol:

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 2:44pm
Why are either of you trying to pretend like its more than what it is? When she starts up drama just be like, "If you need to split for awhile, that's cool. It's not like we're in a relationship."

Easy.


You think that would work? Women never make any sense to me.

:needcoffee:

Ol Timer
04-20-2012, 2:46pm
I have this girlfriend that I know is using me. She is all into me for a couple of weeks and then she vanishes for a couple of months. Then, out of the blue, she starts coming around again. Ordinarily I wouldn't put up with this type of crap but the sex is pretty good.

Should I let her keep stringing me along?



Is it just possible she disappears for several months because that's how long it takes for the tape burns and shackle wounds to heal?

NEED-A-VETTE
04-20-2012, 2:49pm
You think that would work? Women never make any sense to me.

:needcoffee:

Yes. Next time you see her, just lay it all out. That it's fun for you both for a few weeks, but that it's not this deeply involved romance. More like FWB.

If she's cool with it. Awesome. If she's not, then she's a bitch trying to string you along. I mean, come on...what exactly do you think she's doing in the months that she's MIA?

And stop paying for shit. Occasionally, fine...but not all the time. She's just a f*ck buddy.

Burro (He/Haw)
04-20-2012, 2:56pm
just lay it all out.
Disagree. **** with her head a little. (If you have the chops. No offense) She's been doing it to you.

she's a bitch
I'm putting my money on this already, therefore, **** with her head. Two can play that game.

And stop paying for shit.
And from the "No shit Sherlock" department.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 3:02pm
...what exactly do you think she's doing in the months that she's MIA?


LoL. I know what she's doing. I'm not exacly pining away the days waiting for her either.

:D



...And stop paying for shit. Occasionally, fine...but not all the time. She's just a f*ck buddy.

She actually makes more than I do so we usually just alternate who pays.

NEED-A-VETTE
04-20-2012, 3:03pm
Disagree. **** with her head a little. (If you have the chops. No offense) She's been doing it to you.

See, I just have no time for that nonsense. Plus, I'm not in high school...which is where head games belong. I try and stay as drama free as possible. Why would anyone, especially a man, want to bring more drama around? Because in the end, trying to f*ck with someone, brings drama when it's all over.

Burro (He/Haw)
04-20-2012, 3:19pm
She's playing games, he can. That was my point. Or, shit can her ASAP. At 50 years old, I'd kick her to the curb. Pronto.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 3:22pm
See, I just have no time for that nonsense. Plus, I'm not in high school...which is where head games belong. I try and stay as drama free as possible. Why would anyone, especially a man, want to bring more drama around? Because in the end, trying to f*ck with someone, brings drama when it's all over.

It's not really drama to me b/c I recognize her end game and just let her hit the door when she wants to walk.


I guess I could go ahead and get to the point. I met a new girl this week and we are supposed to go out tomorrow but I know miss on again off again is going to pitch a fit tonight when I tell her I'm busy tomorrow. The new girl may turn out to be special but I hate to ruin a sure thing too.

:insertdramalamasmileyhere:

NEED-A-VETTE
04-20-2012, 3:32pm
LoL. I know what she's doing. I'm not exacly pining away the days waiting for her either.

:D


Well, then...she's not your GF and you're not her BF. Sounds like its just understood that the two of you hook up every few months. Not seeing an issue. Why is it that you feel like you're being used? Used for sex?

She's playing games, he can. That was my point. Or, shit can her ASAP. At 50 years old, I'd kick her to the curb. Pronto.

Too much effort with too little return. Especially if he's just trying to keep a low profile FWB status.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 4:38pm
Headin out. Wish me luck.

:dance:

xXBUDXx
04-20-2012, 4:38pm
It's not really drama to me b/c I recognize her end game and just let her hit the door when she wants to walk.


I guess I could go ahead and get to the point. I met a new girl this week and we are supposed to go out tomorrow but I know miss on again off again is going to pitch a fit tonight when I tell her I'm busy tomorrow. The new girl may turn out to be special but I hate to ruin a sure thing too.

:insertdramalamasmileyhere:

Tell Miss on again off again that you have had raging diarrhea all week and you have to shampoo your carpet. That should buy you a day or two.

Mirroredshades
04-20-2012, 5:32pm
Knock knock knockin on Heaven's door.

:whistle:

Bingo Fuel
04-20-2012, 5:47pm
Your pretty ugly, slow, and lack a personality so I say take what you can get.

Well. This.

Plus I have my kids about 6 days a week. With only one day a week off, I don't really have time to play hard to get.

:D

I fap to images of several women daily and never once have I referred to one as "my girlfriend", because they're sluts.

<Grey Goose spew>
Y'all are cracking me up.


See, I just have no time for that nonsense. Plus, I'm not in high school...which is where head games belong.

Nox is one very luck man. :cert:

Me2
04-20-2012, 5:48pm
Yes. Next time you see her, just lay it all out. That it's fun for you both for a few weeks, but that it's not this deeply involved romance. More like FWB.

If she's cool with it. Awesome. If she's not, then she's a bitch trying to string you along. I mean, come on...what exactly do you think she's doing in the months that she's MIA?

And stop paying for shit. Occasionally, fine...but not all the time. She's just a f*ck buddy.





:iagree: 100% And the sex isn't that good for her if she's MIA longer than she's with you.


Waiting patiently for the "My GF is pregnant but I'm not sure it's mine" thread.

C5Nate
04-20-2012, 6:11pm
I have this girlfriend that I know is using me. She is all into me for a couple of weeks and then she vanishes for a couple of months.


:mad:

The bitch!

I gave her those for Valentines Day.

OBTW, I know where she is for at least a month of those 2 months.

http://armedrobbery.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/alinav-2.jpg?w=655

NB2K
04-20-2012, 8:12pm
Is it just possible she disappears for several months because that's how long it takes for the tape burns and shackle wounds to heal?

"Stop pulling against the ropes. That only makes 'em tighter..."