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SnikPlosskin
06-19-2011, 9:07am
From my blog Nov. 2009

http://www.claritymarketingsupport.com/wp-content/uploads/dadsm2.jpgFor my regular readers, this post may be a bit unusual. But, for me, it is right on topic since much of what I know about business and what I share here originated from my dad. Allow me to indulge you with the tale of the Air Force veteran, turned pilot, turned rodeo rider, turned computer whiz, turned electronics manufacturer, turned cabinet maker.

My name is derived from my dad – he’s Peter R., I’m Peter J. For most of my life, he’s been self-employed. My first jobs were working for his companies. Some were successful, some were not. For me, it was just a job to put gas in my car and hang out with my teenage delinquent friends (at the time). What I didn’t realize was that my father was the best teacher I’ve ever had. He may not even know this and his teaching was never in words. In fact, my dad is the master of the three word sentence. Unless you count grunts.

He taught me by example. By how he lived his life (for better or worse) and how he ran his companies. You see, Peter R. Monfre always operated at the highest levels of ethics. Whether he was operating the Greater Milwaukee Flying Club (12 airplanes!), working for Control Data, building high end custom cabinets or roping calves in the rodeo, he put his customers and employees first – often to his own detriment. He did the right thing always.

I don’t know how he did these things. He didn’t go to college. Yet he is an accomplished pilot (over 5000 hours – even full instrument ratings), provided quality control for early computers (punch cards, anyone?) and even manufactured the first subcutaneous chip implants (long story). I’m not even going to try to explain the calf roping. I suspect he has a photographic memory. I know he worked his ass off.

Looking back over the years, there is a reason I’m where I am today. And that reason is probably hauling bales of hay to feed his horses in 4 feet of snow right now. I, too, have chosen the road less followed. I’ve been self employed my entire adult life. I see the world as a place of endless possibilities where anything is possible. I may have chosen college but the lessons I learned at Monfre Cabinets have been more valuable to me than any lecture I was forced to attend.

My dad still lives in Casper, Wyoming in a house he built at the base of 5K foot Casper Mountain (the third house he built for his family). He’s back to making the best custom cabinets you’ve ever seen for an exclusive clientele that doesn’t even ask “how much?”. They know that Peter R. Monfre will deliver on the level of a true master craftsman and anything less will never see the light of day.

He still has horses (somehow he’s managed to train two wild horses) and he still raises and trains German Shepherd dogs. He still watches Fox News and wears a very large western belt buckle. He still punctuates his sentences with grunts and he looks like his father, Joseph Monfre whom I suspect taught him unknowingly. He still drives my mom crazy.

And he’s still teaching me. We talk on the phone once a week or so (he gets bored with phone conversations quickly) and I still call him to unravel the mysteries of why I can’t install a pre-hung door to save my life. But his values and work ethic permeate my life to this day and I hope that I can be as amazing as my dad and teach my son that integrity is the true measure of success.

Me and my son:
http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k130/ThrakkorzogPJM/enzo_and_daddy_in_car.jpg

Burro (He/Haw)
06-19-2011, 9:19am
Gee Thrakk, Thats pretty nice. :cheers::cheers: Here all this time I thought you were just a wanker who dressed in women's clothes and painted his toenails red.

DAB
06-19-2011, 9:26am
Sounds like a great father. :hurray:

NB2K
06-19-2011, 9:52am
You see, Peter R. Monfre always operated at the highest levels of ethics.

This is all too rare nowadays.

I may not be rich, but I sleep well at night and I have no problems shaving.

Jeff '79
06-19-2011, 10:00am
You should tell him that too......That would be the best father's day gift that a son could give a dad.....:cheers:

SnikPlosskin
06-19-2011, 5:03pm
You see, Peter R. Monfre always operated at the highest levels of ethics.

This is all too rare nowadays.

I may not be rich, but I sleep well at night and I have no problems shaving.

At first I thought you were correcting my grammar. Now I see you are commenting on my shaving problem. Fair enough.

You should tell him that too......That would be the best father's day gift that a son could give a dad.....:cheers:

I wrote it a few years back. He did read it. He mostly grunted about it. My mom told me later it brought a tear to his eye.

Next, I need to write one about mom. Surprisingly my subscribers actually liked it. I thought they would be like "WTF? - I subscribed for marketing advice..."

mrvette
06-19-2011, 6:10pm
It goes back a while, but my folks left industrial Cleveland Ohio for Wash DC, due to Dad being regional manager for a HUGE insurance company....1939, I was born in '44, is born in '31 so I had 2 mothers, basically, and a father who worked krazy mad hours....evenings too sometimes, mom and I waiting in the car just so mom could get outta the house, me bored outta my gourd...while he talked to clients....one car family until '63, when Dad moved the household out to the sticks, about 15 miles outta town, one way...6 miles to the closest gas station, 15 to the grocery store....

Dad's funeral, I was caught flatfooted in the church basement, no one warned/mentioned I"d be called on to say a few words by the parish priest to boot....so I stood up, looked out over the old folks, tons of Mom/Dad's friends and businees men I knew.....I spotted Gus....his partner of some 30 years+ in business, Johnny's wife Ingrid was there.....

So I said, 'Gus, you and Johnny and Dad were the last honest folks in this town....

and there were more than a few lawyers there too, eff 'em forever....

Mom donated a church bell in Dad's honor....

Dad and Mom are buried in Rock Creek Cemetary....NW Wash Dc....

I"m glad dad has not witnessed my stone ineptitude in business....

:sadangel::seeya:

Datawiz
06-19-2011, 6:14pm
Thanks for sharing. Your dad is a saint and I'm glad to have finally seen a picture of you. I've seen your son many times. :cheers:

SnikPlosskin
06-19-2011, 6:15pm
It goes back a while, but my folks left industrial Cleveland Ohio for Wash DC, due to Dad being regional manager for a HUGE insurance company....1939, I was born in '44, is born in '31 so I had 2 mothers, basically, and a father who worked krazy mad hours....evenings too sometimes, mom and I waiting in the car just so mom could get outta the house, me bored outta my gourd...while he talked to clients....one car family until '63, when Dad moved the household out to the sticks, about 15 miles outta town, one way...6 miles to the closest gas station, 15 to the grocery store....

Dad's funeral, I was caught flatfooted in the church basement, no one warned/mentioned I"d be called on to say a few words by the parish priest to boot....so I stood up, looked out over the old folks, tons of Mom/Dad's friends and businees men I knew.....I spotted Gus....his partner of some 30 years+ in business, Johnny's wife Ingrid was there.....

So I said, 'Gus, you and Johnny and Dad were the last honest folks in this town....

and there were more than a few lawyers there too, eff 'em forever....

Mom donated a church bell in Dad's honor....

Dad and Mom are buried in Rock Creek Cemetary....NW Wash Dc....

I"m glad dad has not witnessed my stone ineptitude in business....

:sadangel::seeya:

Great story, Gene. But give yourself a break. Success in business < success in life.

mrvette
06-19-2011, 6:22pm
Great story, Gene. But give yourself a break. Success in business < success in life.

I disagree, but that depends on your life, I just not very good at it....

thankfully wife #3 here is....

:hurray::seeya:

SnikPlosskin
06-19-2011, 6:25pm
I disagree, but that depends on your life, I just not very good at it....

thankfully wife #3 here is....

:hurray::seeya:

I guess that's sort of like when someone says "at least you still have your health." yeah. Sure.

mrvette
06-19-2011, 6:37pm
I guess that's sort of like when someone says "at least you still have your health." yeah. Sure.

As I recall, I got over a decade on you man....and so nothing super bad, as in hospital, but I could do with some pain relief....arthritis and a junk rusted out POS skeleton in not a good a shape as my '72 vette vert....frame/body never separated since St. Louis....

I need a new skeleton....know where I can get one???

:shots:

SnikPlosskin
06-19-2011, 7:45pm
As I recall, I got over a decade on you man....and so nothing super bad, as in hospital, but I could do with some pain relief....arthritis and a junk rusted out POS skeleton in not a good a shape as my '72 vette vert....frame/body never separated since St. Louis....

I need a new skeleton....know where I can get one???

:shots:

If you find a vendor, grab one for me!:cheers:

lspencer534
06-19-2011, 7:48pm
If you find a vendor, grab one for me!:cheers:

I only buy/sell souls. Interested?

LATB
06-19-2011, 8:06pm
If you find a vendor, grab one for me!:cheers:

:iagree:

put me down for knees & a set of hips.


btw...excellent OP post Thrakk :yesnod: :cheers:

Truck Guy
06-19-2011, 8:25pm
:cheers: