View Full Version : Dating as an adult..."those three words"
oyealiz
06-13-2011, 2:47pm
So you're an adult and back out in the "dating world." How long would it take you to be comfortable with saying "I think this person is THE one?"
And how long before you'd start saying "those three words?!?!"
ie the dreaded/scary/famed I Love You words.
Wait...you're dating? :confused:
NeedSpeed
06-13-2011, 2:50pm
How much alcohol is involved??
VatorMan
06-13-2011, 2:50pm
The second I felt those words would get me laid.
You wanted the truth.:leaving:
oyealiz
06-13-2011, 2:51pm
Wait...you're dating? :confused:
This is a discussion question, goofball, not autobiographical. :lol:
Madmikeee
06-13-2011, 2:51pm
The second I felt those words would get me laid.
You wanted the truth.:leaving:
:iagree::leaving:
I thought it was, "I have kids".
Or, "I am married."
Or, "No, not there"
I have some more...
This is a discussion question, goofball, not autobiographical. :lol:
Then please disregard that PM. :D
:leaving:
Joecooool
06-13-2011, 2:52pm
When its what you feel.
NeedSpeed
06-13-2011, 2:53pm
When its what you feel.
Like in your av?? :D
depends if she is the ONE. if not, i'd say 3-5 dates, if no chemistry, move on down the list. if there is chemistry, you should know within 3-4 months of spending time together doing things and talking about life.
prospero63
06-13-2011, 2:54pm
As soon as you ascertain those are the only three words keeping you from the butt sechs.
Kevin_73
06-13-2011, 2:58pm
This thread makes me feel uneasy in several different ways. :willy:
Datawiz
06-13-2011, 2:59pm
This thread makes me feel uneasy in several different ways. :willy:
:lol:
prospero63
06-13-2011, 2:59pm
This thread makes me feel uneasy in several different ways. :willy:
Hey, no matter how old and gray some dude is, never forget that somewhere some chick is sick of his shit. Or something to that effect...
Mark C5
06-13-2011, 2:59pm
Ummmmmm :leaving:
VetteBoy1979
06-13-2011, 3:12pm
:waiting:
nhlgopens
06-13-2011, 3:24pm
I always heard the dreaded three words... Let's be friends. :(
kylebuck
06-13-2011, 3:25pm
I always heard the dreaded three words... Let's be friends. :(
you too huh...:rofl:
Kerrmudgeon
06-13-2011, 3:28pm
Personal net worth!:toetap:
With age comes practicality!.:dance:
Not until all the financial issues are worked out. :D
MEC5LADY
06-13-2011, 3:37pm
This thread makes me feel uneasy in several different ways. :willy:
It's okay it's probably just gas.... it will pass.
DJ_Critterus
06-13-2011, 3:48pm
The second I felt those words would get me laid.
You wanted the truth.:leaving:
Those particular three words are "suck. Don't blow."
Mark C5
06-13-2011, 3:49pm
For me it's "That'll be $500.00".
MEC5LADY
06-13-2011, 4:23pm
For me it's "That'll be $500.00".
Wow that is an expensive hooker. You need to visit D.C. where you could probably score one for less than $50 and a pack of smokes. Just make sure you check for any packages.:D
Nemesis
06-13-2011, 4:30pm
I always heard the dreaded three words... Let's be friends. :(
For real
Nemesis
06-13-2011, 4:31pm
It's okay it's probably just gas.... it will pass.
It's because I had no one to share this with.
http://cdn.blisstree.com/files/2006/10/chocolate01.jpg
Barn Babe
06-13-2011, 4:42pm
Those particular three words are "suck. Don't blow."
She did specify "adult" in the title...:slap:
MEC5LADY
06-13-2011, 4:42pm
It's because I had no one to share this with.
http://cdn.blisstree.com/files/2006/10/chocolate01.jpg
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh Chocolate!!!!!!!!:dance:
c6vetteinhouston
06-13-2011, 4:45pm
Humm, well, probably will not think or say these words. I would not want to go through all that is involved, getting to know all of her relatives, family, friends, take on her debt because I am debt free, other than my house payments and vehicles, learing all over the ways of someone new, what is the hot and cold buttons, and so on. And, probably the biggest statement I would not want to hear: "Oh, so now that you got what you wanted." My response to that, would be "Well, I did not get anything from you that you did not offer." :)
Defib1961
06-13-2011, 4:49pm
IF I ever say those words again I just may rip my tongue out. IF I ever hear those words again I will run as far and as fast as I can.
Barn Babe
06-13-2011, 4:55pm
IF I ever say those words again I just may rip my tongue out. IF I ever hear those words again I will run as far and as fast as I can.
But... but... I love you!
:leaving:
DJ_Critterus
06-13-2011, 4:56pm
She did specify "adult" in the title...:slap:
Still counts because it's legal with two adults. :D
Defib1961
06-13-2011, 4:58pm
But... but... I love you!
:leaving:
Prove it
Burnt C6
06-13-2011, 5:11pm
you sure Kevin wasn't talking to the DOG and you just thought he was looking your way. :D
Barn Babe
06-13-2011, 5:13pm
Prove it
Trust me.
prospero63
06-13-2011, 5:14pm
Trust me.
:iagree: She puts out. Ask me how I know?
(because I just made it up on the spot, that's how)
A good friendship, respect......where does time fit into the original question? Will it be love as an adult, or a more defined, easy, casual pairing? Flawed question IMO. Clock can not be set, or used.
:waiting:
Barn Babe
06-13-2011, 5:23pm
:iagree: She puts out. Ask me how I know?
(because I just made it up on the spot, that's how)
:iagree: Proof that I'm not picky.
Paging GEODON.... Mr. GEODON, you have a call on the white courtesy phone...
:lol:
:leaving:
prospero63
06-13-2011, 5:37pm
:iagree: Proof that I'm not picky.
Yeah!! Wait, what?
http://captionsearch.com/pix/2rub7eoeem.jpg
VetteBoy1979
06-13-2011, 5:46pm
:iagree: Proof that I'm not picky.
:rofl:
Iron Chef
06-13-2011, 5:46pm
I seem to be better with "Take a hike" than "I love you."
Burnt C6
06-13-2011, 5:53pm
I seem to be better with "Take a hike" than "I love you."
well Mike sometimes that is what needs to be said to them.
MrPeabody
06-13-2011, 6:05pm
How about "GET OFF ME!":lol:
prospero63
06-13-2011, 6:07pm
How about "GET OFF ME!":lol:
I've never heard those words personally. The duct tape makes it hard for them to speak.
ConstantChange
06-13-2011, 6:21pm
I seem to be better with "Take a hike" than "I love you."
:iagree:
mrvette
06-13-2011, 6:21pm
Personal net worth!:toetap:
With age comes practicality!.:dance:
Ornery olde never married phardt across the street from me, ex Coast Guard and SSvc double dipper, he started dating some Scottish woman about his age group...age 65 at the time, after several months, he broke it off cold....
according to him, she asked about his financial stability....he SO wants to take his gold with him....cheep bastard....
:sadangel:
MrPeabody
06-13-2011, 6:29pm
I've never heard those words personally. The duct tape makes it hard for them to speak.
Yeah, but then you miss out on all the screaming.:D
It thought it was 5 words...
I love you long time.:D
WalkerInTN
06-13-2011, 6:45pm
Been burned way too many times, I've got serious trust issues. Don't think it's ever gonna' happen again. :leaving:
Defib1961
06-13-2011, 6:46pm
I seem to be better with "Take a hike" than "I love you."
I have learned to preface any possible relationship with the words,"I am an asshole.", that cuts down on both phrases.
IF I ever say those words again I just may rip my tongue out. IF I ever hear those words again I will run as far and as fast as I can.
:iagree:
I am happilly married to a wonderful women :madwoman:
If I ever was single again :dance: all night long.:party:
Those 3 words make me think of these 3 words. "It's a trap". :leaving:
So you're an adult and back out in the "dating world." How long would it take you to be comfortable with saying "I think this person is THE one?"
And how long before you'd start saying "those three words?!?!"
ie the dreaded/scary/famed I Love You words.
If it got her to put out......say it on the first date.
xXBUDXx
06-13-2011, 8:11pm
I have learned to preface any possible relationship with the words,"I am an asshole.", that cuts down on both phrases.
I'm currently using this method and it makes her like me more.
VatorMan
06-13-2011, 8:14pm
You mofos have totally fubar'd Liz's thread. Not what 3 words YOU want. Those 3 words SHE mentioned. Stay on topic you f'ers/
This has been a VatorMan PSA.:dance::dance:
You mofos have totally fubar'd Liz's thread. Not what 3 words YOU want. Those 3 words SHE mentioned. Stay on topic you f'ers/
This has been a VatorMan PSA.:dance::dance:
:flipa: :flipa:
Its "OFF-TOPIC", Liz would be disappointed if we all gave a direct answer.
oyealiz
06-13-2011, 8:26pm
You mofos have totally fubar'd Liz's thread. Not what 3 words YOU want. Those 3 words SHE mentioned. Stay on topic you f'ers/
This has been a VatorMan PSA.:dance::dance:
:rofl::rofl::rofl:
Telling this gang to stay on topic is futile! At least they've stayed fairly close so far. :lol:
:flipa: :flipa:
Its "OFF-TOPIC", Liz would be disappointed if we all gave a direct answer.
I don't know about disappointed, but I would be shocked! :lol:
Kerrmudgeon
06-13-2011, 8:37pm
:rofl::rofl::rofl:
Telling this gang to stay on topic is futile! At least they've stayed fairly close so far. :lol:
I don't know about disappointed, but I would be shocked! :lol:
What do you expect for a bunch of ADD slugs who got the short bus???:D
Defib1961
06-13-2011, 8:45pm
What do you expect for a bunch of ADD slugs who got the short bus???:D
I got to ride on the trailer behind the short bus.
What is it with you ladies? "I love you"? "Where is this relationship going?"
When you say this kind of stuff, you might as well just ask us if we would like you to hit us in the head with a 2X4. It would be just about as much fun for most guys.
Why must you ruin a perfectly good time by bringing this kind of stuff up?
Why can't we just enjoy each other's company, and let that be it. Why must there be checkpoints along the way?
Do you love me (yet)?
Are we going to get married?
When are we going to get engaged?
When are we going to get married?
No wonder men are scared of commitment. The women's manual seems to have some sort of timeline/checklist that the men's manual doesn't have.
oyealiz
06-13-2011, 9:15pm
No wonder men are scared of commitment. The women's manual seems to have some sort of timeline/checklist that the men's manual doesn't have.
SOME women are this way, I agree. Some of us, not so much. And some men are much worse than women about getting involved waaaaay too quickly. :yesnod:
HeatherO
06-13-2011, 9:21pm
i honestly don't get what is so scary about those words :bilmem:
SnowDale
06-13-2011, 9:34pm
That's one of the good things about being married to someone I love. I can whisper those three words into her ear, "What's for dinner?" :leaving:
Iron Chef
06-13-2011, 9:35pm
That's one of the good things about being married to someone I love. I can whisper those three words into her ear, "What's for dinner?" :leaving:
This.
/thread
navyndi2
06-13-2011, 9:40pm
SOME women are this way, I agree. Some of us, not so much. And some men are much worse than women about getting involved waaaaay too quickly. :yesnod:
I have no idea what you are talking about..... :leaving:
Uncle Pervey
06-13-2011, 9:56pm
She did specify "adult" in the title...:slap:
Well that leaves out D.J. and about 90% of the other posters...the other 10% of the posters are nuts so I don't think they count.
Never!!
:iagree:
Ding Ding
Winner
jeff w
06-13-2011, 10:44pm
:iagree: Proof that I'm not picky.
Says the woman who turned me down :leaving:
oyealiz
06-13-2011, 10:46pm
That's one of the good things about being married to someone I love. I can whisper those three words into her ear, "What's for dinner?" :leaving:
You ain't right, boy!!! :lol:
I have no idea what you are talking about..... :leaving:
O yes, you DID get involved VERY quickly, didn't you? Thanks for helping me make my point. :D
:iagree:
Ding Ding
Winner
LOL
and...
JRC27...You're still just breaking hearts, eh?! :lol:
MEANZ06
06-13-2011, 10:48pm
That's one of the good things about being married to someone I love. I can whisper those three words into her ear, "What's for dinner?" :leaving:
:rofl:
navyndi2
06-13-2011, 11:11pm
True, but remember I've known this girl for ten years. It just kinda happened after running into each other so many times.
:cheers:
TooManyIDs
06-13-2011, 11:15pm
....How long would it take you to be comfortable with saying "I think this person is THE one?"....
Have been married a long time, 3 kids. Realistically, if I found myself no longer married, I'd keep it that way. Going out would be fine, but no three words from me (and I'd be up front about it). :leaving:
:shots:
Firevette
06-14-2011, 12:03am
What is it with you ladies? "I love you"? "Where is this relationship going?"
When you say this kind of stuff, you might as well just ask us if we would like you to hit us in the head with a 2X4. It would be just about as much fun for most guys.
Why must you ruin a perfectly good time by bringing this kind of stuff up?
Why can't we just enjoy each other's company, and let that be it. Why must there be checkpoints along the way?
Do you love me (yet)?
Are we going to get married?
When are we going to get engaged?
When are we going to get married?
No wonder men are scared of commitment. The women's manual seems to have some sort of timeline/checklist that the men's manual doesn't have.
I dont have that problem. I dont have any money.:bilmem:
ft laud mike
06-14-2011, 6:32am
The second I felt those words would get me laid.
You wanted the truth.:leaving:
:rofl:
I thought it was, "I have kids".
Or, "I am married."
Or, "No, not there"
I have some more...
:rofl::cheers:
wow... after reading this entire thread, I'm just more assured of my feelings. I can love someone sure, but that tends to lead to marriage. and we all know all that does for me is forces me to replace every furnishing in my house.
I was asked the other day if I support gay marriage. I told them straight faced "hell, I don't even support straight people getting married. Why would I support gays getting married???" :leaving:
BuckyThreadkiller
06-14-2011, 9:51am
IF I ever say those words again I just may rip my tongue out. IF I ever hear those words again I will run as far and as fast as I can.
More likely those three words are "I'm pressing charges."
Kevin_73
06-14-2011, 11:47am
I was asked the other day if I support gay marriage. I told them straight faced "hell, I don't even support straight people getting married. Why would I support gays getting married???" :leaving:
As I understand it you have historically been one of the biggest supporters of marriage. Does this mean you have finally learned your lesson? :lol:
oyealiz
06-14-2011, 2:02pm
More likely those three words are "I'm pressing charges."
And since you know him better than the rest of us here, Bucky, you're probably right! :lol:
As I understand it you have historically been one of the biggest supporters of marriage. Does this mean you have finally learned your lesson? :lol:
:rofl:
Maybe he should start just buying furniture for girls he likes instead of marrying them. :D
nah, that's too permanent.. maybe a pearl necklace that wipes off? :leaving:
MEC5LADY
06-14-2011, 7:18pm
Oh me bad I thought you were talking about the other two sets of three words......:leaving:
oyealiz
06-14-2011, 7:20pm
Oh me bad I thought you were talking about the other two sets of three words......:leaving:
And what would those be?
MEC5LADY
06-14-2011, 7:39pm
And what would those be?
Bite my azz and Feck off asshole...........:leaving:
kylebuck
06-14-2011, 7:41pm
Threads like these make me realize I've never loved anyone.....
Hell yea!!!! I'm ahead of the game.
Z1NONLY
06-14-2011, 8:35pm
The timeline varies greatly with the relationship.
But I would recommend being honest with yourself about what you want, and what you can happily tolerate.
Then that person needs to be someone who really wants your positive qualities and can happily tolerate your negative attributes.
Defib1961
06-14-2011, 8:41pm
And since you know him better than the rest of us here, Bucky, you're probably right! :lol:
:rofl:
Bucky knows my history and luck. My last would have tried to press charges if I had spelled her name wrong. After I tried spelling it ten different ways and after the police said they couldn't arrest me for that.........I started spelling it right. Damn the luck.
So you're an adult and back out in the "dating world." How long would it take you to be comfortable with saying "I think this person is THE one?"
And how long before you'd start saying "those three words?!?!"
ie the dreaded/scary/famed I Love You words.
I thought Obama was "The One". :confused5:
Kevin_73
06-14-2011, 9:04pm
Bucky knows my history and luck. My last would have tried to press charges if I had spelled her name wrong. After I tried spelling it ten different ways and after the police said they couldn't arrest me for that.........I started spelling it right. Damn the luck.
As long as you spelled it correctly on the restraining order you'll be just fine. :lol:
Defib1961
06-14-2011, 9:05pm
As long as you spelled it correctly on the restraining order you'll be just fine. :lol:
:rofl:
island14
06-14-2011, 9:31pm
As long as you spelled it correctly on the restraining order you'll be just fine. :lol:
:lol:
:cheers:
island14
06-14-2011, 9:32pm
If I was on top of her when I said it...
Does it still count?
So you're an adult and back out in the "dating world." How long would it take you to be comfortable with saying "I think this person is THE one?"
And how long before you'd start saying "those three words?!?!"
ie the dreaded/scary/famed I Love You words.
I'd make her take a lie detector test and ask these questions.
1. Have you read any books "how to act when finding a man."
2. How often do you want sex?
3. Do you have a bad temper?
4. Have you ever dated a black guy?
5. Do you love your parents?
And I'll add 20 multiple choice questions to test her IQ. If her answers are acceptable and has an IQ under 85, then sure I'll tell her that I love her and want to marry her.
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